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dear doctor

I hope someone can help me as I am in panic mode at the moment. On the 19th of December I visited high class   escort  agency
My relationship with my wife had not been going the greatest and I ended up having sex with this escort.oral giving and receiving was not protected. I did wear a condom for vaginal sex. The oral sex giving and receiving was rough. Once the oral sex was finished I wore a condom and had sex. I ejaculated on her back that was it. The escort offered seconds and again there was oral giving and receiving .there was no signs of any visible std’d on the escort.

On the 19th of January about 30 days + I had a eye infection which seemed like a bump at the start and one eye was swollen. I went to the doctor and he examined and said that it seemed like a bacterial infection. He had a look inside the eye with a cotton bud. There was no major redness or discharge or pus.  He prescribed Optrex infected eye solution with chloramphenicol. He said to put this inside eye. I did this for a week but nothing changed apart from a stye like pimple appearing on the the top eyelid in between three hair follicles . this does look  very much like a pimple and  stye .  but I was getting so stressed out  thinking if it was Chlamydial conjunctivitis and I got this in contact with any vaginal fluid when giving oral I went back to see  a senior nurse . the nurse said again it looks like a stye and put  a cream on top of eyelid instead of drops and prescribed me another lot of cream. The pimple have not disappeared after three weeks and I’m still using the cream. The eyelid looks very slightly red and swollen. When I wake up in the morning there is a slight bit of watery clear discharge .

I have no other symptoms; no burning when urinating, no flu , no cold sores , no rashes , no discharges and no std like symptoms apart from this eye issue

Now four days later after my eye infection my wife developed symptoms like vaginal thrush.  Her symptoms were severe itching and a white odourless discharge, the itching got worse at night . she said it could be thrush so applied yogurt , Canestan yeast infection cream and even took a oral canestan pill. Symptoms did not go away for another week. She said because of the itching she made her bits very sore. She said that there was no rash, any weird colour discharge and there was no pain when urinating. The thrush subsided after three weeks but everyone was quite concerned that it lasted that long. She has been going through a bit of stress at home with my two year old son refusing to sleep and we are house moving. After the Thrush subsided My wife still wanted to go the doctor to see if everything was ok in case the thrush came back. The nurse examined her insides and said the cervix in very red but there is no visible discharge. She followed the normal routine to do a STD  check up and did a swab test and a smear test . she said the redness in the cervix could be due the severe  yeast infection but was not sure till results come if it is Chlamydia or Gonnaria. God will punish me in the right way for this and I have learned my lesson for putting her at risk like this. But please help me here as I’m in so much stress that my infected eye is not getting any better .
This forum has got so much things you would learn and sometimes its so useful when you cant talk to someone so thank you

Now I’m getting really worried if I have given something to her and so stressed out I can’t even eat. I have a couple of questions and if any doctor or person can advise me I would really appreciate.

1.Have I got Chlamydia conjunctivitis and should this show up in my eye after 30 days and would this only show up in eye without no other symptoms? as I have no other symptoms and very healthy
2. Have I passed an STD onto my partner’s genitals when I had unprotected sex with her?
3. Has my partner contracted an STD from my eye? Please note me and my current partner never perform oral sex giving or receiving but have penetrative  unprotected a week later  I slept with the escort
4 Is it possible that she did not have Thrush all along? Her symptoms like I said earlier were itching and white discharge at start but again no other symptoms?
5. Is the redness in the cervix a sign of a STD or is it to do with the sever yeast infection or cervictitis?
6. What are the chances of getting an STD through giving oral and receiving oral unprotected?
7. If I had Clymidial conjunctivitis how soon would this show up in one eye . would it come up after 25 days or so?
8. Can gonnarea be caught via oral sex ??
9. would a std always be  genital related ??  


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This is a STD forum, we can't go into your wife's issues. Try womans health.

The only thing new you asked was #8 and 9.

Yes you can get gonorrhea from oral sex but most likely would have symptoms. Oral or genital related.
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just needed some more opinions on other stds not just clymadia and want to see if anyone can tell me about my wifes problems
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You already posted this and have been answered in Chlamydia forum
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