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bruised meatus ?
8\20 rough unprotected oral with unknown woman next morning maetus lip swollen purple on left side felt stinging pinching tingling no discharge no pain while i urinate.
8\23 self medicate doxy 100 2x a day for 7days still having symptoms and now have to pee often our sore prostate
8\29 my symptoms still present figured it was trama to meatus had unprotected vaginal with wife 12 hours latter she feels as i she is having a cycst pop very painfull she has had this before
9\3 unprotected vaginal with wife my symptoms of stinging pinching tingling have improved but not gone, still no discharge, testicals ache sometime, i did have slight sore throat for less than 24 hrs with red eyes.
9\13 unprotected vaginal with wife meatus looks same stinging pinching tingling is 70% better wife complained of slight sore throat
9\17 wife feels unwell flu like, slight pain in stomack when pushing next to left hip bone
9\20 wife feels run down flu like has red eyes (not pink eye). my stinging pinching tingling is now only when tip rubs aganst boxers meatus still looks the same, feeling of having to urinate or sore prostate is gone
Have i past something to my wife!
8\23 self medicate doxy 100 2x a day for 7days still having symptoms and now have to pee often our sore prostate
8\29 my symptoms still present figured it was trama to meatus had unprotected vaginal with wife 12 hours latter she feels as i she is having a cycst pop very painfull she has had this before
9\3 unprotected vaginal with wife my symptoms of stinging pinching tingling have improved but not gone, still no discharge, testicals ache sometime, i did have slight sore throat for less than 24 hrs with red eyes.
9\13 unprotected vaginal with wife meatus looks same stinging pinching tingling is 70% better wife complained of slight sore throat
9\17 wife feels unwell flu like, slight pain in stomack when pushing next to left hip bone
9\20 wife feels run down flu like has red eyes (not pink eye). my stinging pinching tingling is now only when tip rubs aganst boxers meatus still looks the same, feeling of having to urinate or sore prostate is gone
Have i past something to my wife!
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
There is nothing in what you describe to suggest that this is herpes. If you are concerned howevver, you should have a trained clinician take a look. EWH
Thank you for your answers. My symptoms have improved instead of a bruised meatus i would say i have an irratated meatus. At times it feels like having an eye lash in your eye. I have made sure not to manipulate the tip. Two new symptoms several very small flesh to white in color bumps on head close to meatus (i am circumsized) and a warm or burning feeling on both sides of groin (lymphnodes maybe). Can we safley say this is not herpes? I am hoping this is fungal I strarted appling lotrimin last night.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome to the Forum. This is a difficult situation which I see as two questions which may, or may not, be related. The first has to do with a possible traumatic injury to your urethral meatus during the encounter you have described. The second has to do with your wife's illness. I'll address them separately.
Vigorous sex, particularly oral sex can be traumatic to the urethra but when this occurs it typically would heal rather quickly- within a week or so. Healing can be slowed if there is local inflammation or if the trauma continues. Not sure of this is part of the explanation for your difficulties or not but it sounds as though things are beginning to get a bit better. As long as the tingling/pinching continues to improve I would allow it to do so and try your best not to manipulate or examine yourself as such activities can lead to unintentional trauma and slow healing.
Your wife. I suspect this is coincidental to your extramarital encounter. It sounds like your wife may have acquired one of the community-acquired, non-STD viral illnesses which occur from time to time and that this is unrelated to your receipt of oral sex. She may even have two unrelated things going on- the ruptured cyst (happened before, likely to happen again) and her viral illness/sore throat.
I hope this helps. I would suggest that you each try to wait out your respective problems and anticipate that they will continue to get better. If you feel your urethra is not getting better , you may wish for a urologist to take a look. This is not an STD. EWH
Vigorous sex, particularly oral sex can be traumatic to the urethra but when this occurs it typically would heal rather quickly- within a week or so. Healing can be slowed if there is local inflammation or if the trauma continues. Not sure of this is part of the explanation for your difficulties or not but it sounds as though things are beginning to get a bit better. As long as the tingling/pinching continues to improve I would allow it to do so and try your best not to manipulate or examine yourself as such activities can lead to unintentional trauma and slow healing.
Your wife. I suspect this is coincidental to your extramarital encounter. It sounds like your wife may have acquired one of the community-acquired, non-STD viral illnesses which occur from time to time and that this is unrelated to your receipt of oral sex. She may even have two unrelated things going on- the ruptured cyst (happened before, likely to happen again) and her viral illness/sore throat.
I hope this helps. I would suggest that you each try to wait out your respective problems and anticipate that they will continue to get better. If you feel your urethra is not getting better , you may wish for a urologist to take a look. This is not an STD. EWH
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
