Let me walk you thru a timeline of events:
7/2004: I had unprotected
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex
4/2005: I had no symptoms, but I wanted to be sure I was negative for STDs due to my unprotected
sexualCauses of sexual dysfunction
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Sexual problems overview encounter in 7/2004. Blood test for HIV was non-reactive.
UrineCalcium - urine
Calcium urine test
Chloride - urine
Cortisol - urine
Electrolytes - urine
Glucose test - urine
Hcg in urine
Ketones - urine
Kidney - blood and urine flow
Lh urine test (home test)
Ph urine test test for chlamydia and gonorrhea was negative
late 6/2005: Practiced protected
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex with my girlfriend 3-4times/week.
7/2005: Gilfriend begins taking birth
controlControl
Control rx
late 7/2005: Began having unprotected
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex with my girlfriend 4-5times/week
7-9/2005: Gilfriend has spotting between her mensual cycle. Nothing else unusual. Said that she had experienced spotting in the past with various types of birth control.
mid 10/2005: Girlfriend experiences lots of pain during sex, says she experiences discharge. Girlfriend sees a doctor. Doctors diagnoses her with a yeast infection. Doctor has her take over the counter medicine. GF not tested for STDs. Yeast infection and pain disappears several days later. A day or so later, we have unprotected sex. The next day, I notice that my penis itches a bit. I also have pain during urination. I brush it off. Subtle itching continues to occur. I visit doctor two weeks later. I test positive for chlamydia. I'm prescriped four pills which I take that night. I notify GF the day I test positive. GF visits doctor. GF takes same medicine the following day. GF gets tested. GF Swab tests are negative for chlamydia and gonorrhea. GF Blood tests are non-reactive for HIV.
I get retested 7 days after I tested positive for chlamydia and after my one day of medication. My urine tests are negative for chlamydia and gonorrhea, blood tests and non-reactive for HIV, and negative for syphillis. We have unprotected sex again.
A week later, I still have more pronounced symptoms. Still itching on tip of penis and burning after urinating. Slight pain in testicles. I see doctor. Doctor suspects I have urethritis. Doctor prescripes 20 pills of 100mg doxycyline, which I take 2x/day for 10 days. Symptoms do not go away. In fact, I feel more pain in my testicles now. I also have stomach pain. GF experienced pain during sex a couple of days ago.
All of this leads me frustrated and confused. GF has not had sex since beginning of 2005. Our first sexual encounter was in june 2005. Is it possible for to have chlamydia and not show any symptoms for in her case 6+months, my case 12+months? How can I test positive and she negative when we had unprotected sex 30+ times since I was diagnosed? What is the false positive (and negative) for a chamydia urine test? Can you think of any other reason why I'm in pain.
I'm seeing a urologist this friday. Where should I go from here?
Keep up the great work =)
So, maybe you contracted her yeast infection. I gave my husband one once, although he only had itching and redness, none of your other symptoms - and I'd think a doctor would recognize that anyway. Hopefully Dr. Handsfield will reply soon; it'll be interesting to read what he thinks.
However, there's another way you could look at this. I think you might ask yourself why you'd want to stay with someone who doesn't trust you and doesn't believe you. You may have had a false positive, but your husband chose not to believe you and chose to get divorced over this. So stop torturing yourself. Yes, things could have been different, but this is where you are right now, and that's the only thing you can change. Seek counseling to help you figure this whole thing out, and help you get past this and move on in your life. Depending on the current situation, maybe he'd even come along with you. No matter what, though, there are better things ahead. :-)
I wish you the best.