Two separate lesions occuring a few weeks apart on separate areas of the penis suggests something other than herpes, which usually occurs in clusters; and recurrences usually involve nearly the same spot each time. And herpes lesions typically don't itch as the main initial symptom. So my guess is that it isn't herpes. (Whether your have bug bites or not, I cannot say; that also sounds unlikely.) But this is only guesswork, and it could still be atypical herpes. If so, you likely have been infected for a long time--i.e., not necessarily caught at one of your recent sexual encounters.
You're going to need to see a provider for proper diagnosis. Sorry I cannot be more helpful.
Good luck-- HHH, MD
also, the "bites" didn't happen 2 weeks apart. they all happened around the same time. i just think i noticed them over the span of 2 days. the fact that one is right on my urethra is what is bothering me. thanks again!
thank you!