The unprotected oral and vaginal sex I had with my 27 yo massage "friend" three weeks ago turned up negative for gonorrhea and chlamydia, good news. I have had no symptoms to date. Should I test for HIV and Syphilis in another week or so, and If I don't what is the risk to my partner? I will probably follow up anyway due to the guilt and uncertainty, the full panel.
I also had unprotected oral sex with another masseuse tonight. Would you agree that I don't need testing again for THIS exposure? She says she herself tests frequently, is clean, and has had the HPV vaccine. I have no reason to doubt her.
Based on the above can I safely resume unprotected sex with my wife? It would seem so based on what I have read but...I am seeking the medical answers to these questions.
Finally, if someone does nothing but unprotected oral sex and protected vaginal, is that a fairly safe lifestyle? Just for the record, I have done exactly this for twenty years and have never acquired anything other than guilt and stress and lost wages. I know it time to stop, the heat in the kitchen is too much, the load too heavy. I am not proud of these choices. Planned Parenthood is tired of seeing me and you probably are too.
Thank you
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