Welcome to the STD forum. I'll try to help. I'll go directly to your specific questions.
1) There are several unusual aspects to your case. The location and description (pubic area, with dark mole-like lesions) are unusual for warts, and it is atypical for genital warts show up so late or to last so long after the apparent time of acquisition. A dermatologist's perspective usually is accurate. Still, I am a little skeptical you have warts. When the biopsy result is available, you should discuss it with the dermatologist and also ask her level of certainty that the other lesions also were warts.
2) The biopsy will be valid only for the site that was actually sampled. The result might influence the dermatologist's opinion about the other lesions, though.
3) Don't over-interpret what you have read elsewhere on this forum. I tell patients that probably they are not likely to infect partners if genital warts are treated, go away, and 6 months later they have not recurred. But that's only an approximation. And your situation is obviously atypical, so I cannot say whether such a guideline applies in your case. In any even, the starting point for such advice is from the time the warts -- if that's what you have -- have cleared up, either on their own or with treatment.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
I would rather you speak frankly with your current dermatologist. Feel free to print out my reply, or at least ask the questions it implies: you understand that warts are less common in the pubic area, pigmented (dark) lesions are uncommon, long time since last exposure, etc; and that you want confirmation that the diagnosis of warts is accurate. Raise the possibility of a second opinion, but in a non-challenging way. If your dermatologist is defensive or evasive, for sure get a second opinion. But my bet is that you will find her more reflective than dogmatic.
thank you very much, doctor. Whether I have genital warts or not, this board has made me much more comfortable. I was really scared. I'm still saddened and frustrated, but there is light at the end of the tunnel. You're insight has been a big help.
If you could please indulge me once more:
should I go to another dermatologist and have a biopsy performed on the other two moles? Is it too late in light of the fact that the moles have been frozen? in other words, where do I go from here?
again thank you for your help.