This sounds much more like folliculitis, both because of the location (most genital herpes lesions in men are on the shaft or head of the penis) and because herpes lesions never have a hair protruding but folliculitis often does. The leg pains don't sugges herpes either. Folliculitis is just like any skin infection, like a pimple; some lesions are painful, some aren't.
My bet is your doctor told you this probably isn't herpes. That certainly is my view. Follow up with your doc if in doubt.
Good luck-- HHH, MD
when i said the base i meant the shaft sorry. but the bump is near other hair follicles and pubic hair. and there is hair sticking out of it. which leads me to believe its folliculitis. however the pain never been this severe with a hair follicle which scares me into thinking its herpes. the doctor i saw said it didnt look like herpes but i wanted to swab it to be sure. he also said the swab test wasn't always accurate the first or even the 2nd time around. is that true? now i know i already asked but is there any symptoms i should look for that would confirm herpes such as spreading of redness, scabbing, multiple bumps spreading in that area, itching, pain, swelling, etc? and if it is folliculitis what would you recommend for treatment/taking away some of the pain? how long does something like this typically take to go away? i know you probably cant be super specific for liability reasons. i understand if you cannot answer certain questions. thanks your for your time it is greatly appreciated.
The additional information reinforces my opinion you have folliculitis, not herpes, especially since that was your doc's diagnosis. Herpes and folliculits are not hard to tell apart and your doc surely is right. He is the one to ask about treatment, pain relief, etc.