hello-i apologize in
advanceAdvance care plus
Advance relief if i am repetitive butlike many others i feel like my story has specific nuances that id like addressed:heres my history:i have had hsv 1 for many years(like most people)3 years ago i was diagnosed with hsv-2,my dr prescribed
valtrex-i took it before
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex (always protected)-i then had a outbreak about 3 months later-after that i went on
dailyDaily combo
Daily multiple for men 50+
Daily multiple for women
Daily multiple for women 50+
Daily multiple vitamins
Daily vite
Daily-vite men's formula
Daily-vite weight control valtrex-since then it has been three years and i have not had any outbreaks-i do often get a tingling on the right side of my
penisCancer - penis
Curvature of the penis
Penis care (uncircumcised)
Penis pain(where the outreak occured)but that was it-about 4 months ago i started dating someone and we have been having unprotected sex-i believed her to be hsv-2 positive(for various reasons)-even though she claimed not to be-after dating for awhile and having unprotected sex(while still taking valtrex daily)i began to feel the tingling and soreness(that was usually only present on the right side of my penis where the intial outbreak occured)on my inner thighs, scrotum, and buttox-my gf later claimed i gave her hsv-2 due to an abnormal pap smear-which i know is a unreliable test-due to the anxiety of having unprotected sex i went to get two hiv pcr dna tests over a period of two months-both negative(thank god)we have since broken up-about one week ago i went to see a woman i met online and had protected sex with her-i also fingered her for quite awhile-the finger i used had a small cut on it due to me tearing off a bit of skin while i was en route to see her-she also perfomred oral on me-since then the tingling and soreness that was usually localised to the right side of my penis has spread beyond from my scrotcum and inner thighs and buttok(a symptom i was expiernecing after being with the previous gf)to my leg-to one knee-to my chest area-and my arm - beside my nose and under one eye-and my stomach-no lesions whatsoever-just very sore tingling(especially in the scrotum and buttox region)it also should be noted that i am in a very high stress situation with a family member in the hospital and i have been sleeping in the icu and the hospital for about a week
questions:
1.can my previous case of hsv-2 have gotten worse by having unprotected sex with a woman who also had hsv-2(possibly a more severe case)-could that have caused it to spread to all these other places??? if we both have it should we be protected anyway
2.i know hsv-2 can raise the risk of infection of other stds such as hiv-am i at risk for that by fingering someone with a cut on my finger?or is the risk only associated with the genital area?and am i at risk due to the fact that i have soreness on my scrotum(possible hsv-2 spread infection)which could have come in contact with her vaginal fluid
3.if i dont have sores or lesions present could i possibly be speading the hsv-2 to other parts of my body(due to shedding) by simply touching my penis and then possibly touching my arms and face and legs and such- if not what could these other tinglings be?
thank u in advance-sorry for the long msg
jd
HHH, MD
re question # 2 - you say that the increased risk of hiv transmission because i have herpes is due to lesions(with or without symptoms) - when you say without symptoms - do you mean without open sores and just having shedding? does the tingling delinate shedding? because i currently have tingling all the time -- also in this case the sex was covered by a condom - but i have tingling on my scrotum - can the vaginal secretions that may hit the scrotum cause hiv because the scrotum is exposed?
re question #3 - if this is not Autoinoculation - what can all this new tingling be - around the buttox scrotum knees chest..etc - it only started after being with the new gf who had hsv 2 and increased in the last week after my last sexual encounter(albeit during a period of heavy personal anxiety) - i have had tingling on my chest for years - and there is a history of shingles in the family - never had a sore or anything but i attributed it to that and it always went away - this new tingling and soreness is constant and has me worried
thanks again so much - this dialogue really helps
all the best
jd
The tingling you describe is not a symptom of herpes; something else is the cause. Anxiety seems a good bet.
The main neurological symptom of herpes is prodrome, i.e. temporary numbness, tingling, or other sensations that occur for 1-2 days (and only 1-2 days) just before an outbreak. The tingling is limited to the distribution of the nerve root where the herpes is hiding between outbreaks--for example, a patch on the thigh, on a buttock, or down a leg. It never involves distant areas of the body (knees, chest, etc). Furhter, if your symptoms occur on both sides of the body, they absolutely cannot be due to herpes; recurrent herpes symptoms (both sores and prodrome) are limited to one side or the other of the midline of the body. Sometimes prodrome-only outbreaks may occur, that is, no progression to overt sores. Whether there is more asymptomatic shedding during those times isn't clear. And prodrome never lasts more than a few days at most, recurring no more often than once a month, with no symptoms at all between episodes.
Follow up with your providerr if the tingling etc continues and bothers you. But you can be certain your herpes is not the cause, except as a possible manifestation of anxiety--which in turn could be related to your herpes. You are a better judge of that possibility than I can be.
HHH, MD
ok but now im slightly confused
from what your saying most of my tingling is probably not related to herpes - can the body stay in a prodome or tingling state for a longer period if valtrex is taken daily - therby possibly fighting off the outbreak but continually leaving one sheddning all the time
and the more important question - the tigling in my scrotum(which from what you say most likely isnt herpes related) can this tingling -if it was shedding- possibly lead to hiv infection through protected sex when the vainal secrtetions may have hit this area-that is obviously not covered by the condom????
also recieving female to male oral sex during shedding? same low to no risk as without shedding?
the tingling is all over my body now - and i have very slight diarreah- some muscle aches and one swollen gland in my neck - are these possible hiv symptoms(i know they are not herpes sytmptoms from what you said) --
thanks again - so worried over here
jd
The tingling and twitching you describe have absolutely nothing to do with herpes. Not "most" of your tingling, all of it. And as I said above, prodrome always lasts only for a couple of days, maybe up to 5 days, never longer.
Transmission of herpes to another person--whether by genital intercourse, oral contact, or any other exposure--can only occur when there is virus shedding, not at any other time. You cannot tell when asymptomatic viral shedding is occuring. Asymptomatic means nothing abnormal is noticed; no tingling, nothing.
The tingling and other symptoms you describe also do not suggest HIV. HIV does not cause tingling or twitching, and many things cause diarrhea and muscle aches and enlarged lymph nodes far more commonly than HIV does.
As I said above, it is possible your symptoms reflect mental stress, emotion, anxiety, etc, not a physical illness. Follow up with a health care provider. I will have no further replies.
HHH, MD
HHH, MD
can one be infected w hiv through herpes possibly on the scrotum while having protected sex - through the discharge of vaginal secretions to the scrotum area?
if u cannot reply i understand but this was my main area of confusion - thank you for all the previous help
jd
Theoretically yes, but very low risk. For some reason, recurrent herpes doesn't occur very often on the scrotum. So don't assume you have it unless a health care provider has given you a definite diagnosis of herpes as the cause of scrotal sores.
This one really is my last reply. See a health care provider and ask him/her to assess your anxiety, which is out of proportion to the risk you have anything serious going on.
HHH, MD
all the best
JD