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lap dance hiv std risk
Hello Doc, First of all thanks a lot for this forum and I really appreciate the value you bring to society in educating people like me on a subject that is really sensitive and crucial. I am sure there are a lot of people out there happy worry free because of you.

I had tested myself about a year and half ago (dont remember the type of test) but the report was negative. I havent had any unprotected sex exposure since then.

Rcently about 2 weeks ago I visited a strip club and received lap dance. I did ejaculate with my jeans and undies on and stripper wearing g-string. I did not touch her genitals nor kissed her. Apart from the rubbing or clothed frottage (stripper rubbing against me) I doubt there was any skin - skin contact as I was wearing jeans and shirt all the time and the stripper was wearing her g-string.

Do you think a HIV test is really warranted for these exposures? I understand that one cannot get any STDs whilst wearing clothes is that true, or am I at any risk from these encounters that I must be worried of?

Please help me, I am getting married to my fiance whom I loved for more than an year now and I have my wedding preparations going on which is 2 months. Shall I change my wedding plans due to the recent encounter? Worried, please help.

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This isnt the doctor moderated section,

But anyway, anyone who has done 7th grade sex ed could tell you, you have 0 risk and dont need a HIV test.
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Hello. No risk for STDs, the least for HIV.

Put your mind at ease. Buy a stripping pole and some dancing lessons for you lady, it will save you from unnecessary stress later. :)

Best luck and take care

Dr Ripazzio (self-educated love doctor)
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How about a hand-job? What are the risks for a sex worker performing only a hand job, while she was fully clothed?
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Mutual Masterbation is considered safe sex.  You had no risk..  You went to gentlemens club and had good time.   It happens.  I would chalk it up as your send off in your final days of being single.  

Take Care...
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Thanks for the comments. Might be something was lost, there was no masturbation or anything. I am more concerned because of the discharge. Even if I was always dressed up does the discharge / ejaculation elevate the risks?
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