by the way the chances of getting anything from what you describe is very low, so dont worry about it.
not herpes, its a virus dude, virus are alot harder to transmit then bacteria. A virus like that requires direct skin to skin contact with the infected area. U can get chlamydia and even ghonorrea from that but nothing else.
you can get herpes from a handjob
people will say yes, but no it cant cuz u need to rub your penis on the infected area. U can get chlamydea like this but not ghonorrea, if u touch your her and then your penis, people will say no u cant but u can.