need advice

[jockojohnson]

been tested for hiv 4 times in 3 months tested at 2 weeks for syphillis ,and gonohrea , have rashes hiv comes - 4 times syph and gono - at 2 weeks no discharge but sore neck wondering if syph should be tested for again read that it can take up to 6 months to show up told that a 10 second lick on the head of my penis and a tongue kiss is so unlikley for hiv but have syptms since incident this be syphyllis never tested spinal fluid 3 1/2 months now and cant find an answer

[jockojohnson]

any ideas or suggestions on a bacterial infection or something along those lines that could have happened i need to find an answer as to why i am suffering just trying to find a direction to head in

[Vance2335]

You had no STD risk.

[jockojohnson]

yes i know it is very minimal but to my understanding there are other factors that can increase my risk such as herpes or warts also i had just left home and had brushed my teeth i basically have bleeding gums most of the time and this person was likely giving oral to others before me  if  he had been infected recently or was infected and not recieving antiretrovirals i dont know but that could also increase risk i will continue to test out to 6 mnths i am having a hard time doing things that used to come easy to me struggling just to do my job gerd is killing me just wondering if anyone has any suggestions i was not worried about this at all until 10 days later my face and facial hair itched so badly i was trying to chew my lips off my face to relieve the itching then i found thrush then pale stool and gerd not digesting certain foods sensitive to sunlight and hot weather sucks because i work outside rashes on my whole body including scalp and torsohands felt funny feet felt hot and tingly extreme sweating hot flashes night sweats found so far molluscom and hpv also gerd from what ive been reading syphylis dosent show right away sometimes can take six months i have been to a g i  found no infection ultrasound nothing stool testing no infection that was at about 21/2 months i find if i stay inside with air conditioning i stay hydrated and i can sleep in 1 1/2 hour blocks at the end of a work week sleep very little if at all have to drink minimum 2 gallons of fluid a day when i was having night sweats also i think it was the 3 month mark stayed inside all weekend laying on the floor couch and bed trying to get comfy so miserable eating mass quantities of food every hour ate a full meal for three days 24 hrs a day did not gain a pound18 meals in a 24 hr period i dont think this is a coincidence because of a bad allergy season

[Vance2335]

So someone licked your penis for 10 seconds and kissed you...that was your risk??