nude body to body massage & worried about few symptoms

First of i took this step of posting only after i read all ur answers on the discussions & now iam feeling a bit normal to make up self bold enough to ask post
My worry started right from the day i had been to a massage par lour were i was given a nude body to body massage by adding some lotion(she was completely nude while i wore an underwear)
the episode was of a small duration(15mins) & after massage she gave me an hand job while i was fingering her it was a done in a couples of seconds after which i may have touched under my foreskin(Insertion / sex at all),then i took bath with no soap & had to wipe myself with the towel that she used and then i left the place.( this was my first such episode in my life) this happened on 1st of April 2012
ever since that day i have started to fear if i will b affected with hiv & iam leaving with this feeling since 5-6months now..
but very recently sine August i have these symptoms
1)Fungal infection in my back (groin) since this appeared iam not able to control my depression. i was prescribed a cream by a doc and it disappeared after applying & reappeared after a week and after i applied the cream its gone..
2)2weeks back there was smegma formation under foreskin its appears again n again even after wash .(i had not noticed this for many years as i used to see it few years back) i was worried to see this happen continuously for 1-2weeks then all of a sudden i started to notice small red bumps under my foreskin there are many and some have white colour in the end point. i also had herpes like pimples on my lips same time(this used to happen with before not regularly but i have a history of this appearing in me few times long back ).
3)I had several liquid filled small boils on my scalp for sometime & some red pimples like formation on several parts of my body and face which healed after a week.
4)I have lost 4-5kgs of weight since a month (Don't know if this can be due to my depression)
5)I feel little a bit of pain in my joints every now and then. Not too painful but still there is pain in all joints.
6) Both the sides of my neck have started to pain.
7)My throat is starting to get dried every now n then.
I never had sex before & and iam not exposed to any kind of drugs & stuff. I have lived a very healthy life till date.
All the above symptoms were noticed within a span of month
This was my first such experience & all the above symptoms are new to me.
I am totally depressed & not able to concentrate on anything as iam unmarried & come from a respected family.

anybody plz help me iam worried if the above symptoms are herpes or HIV or any other STD..
Iam scared to see a doctor as i wont be able to accept if iam diagnosed HIV
i have never had sex(protected/unprotected)
Iam anxiously waiting for a reply

[Vance2335]

You had no STD risk (as you never had sex). Post in the herpes and HIV forum for answer to those questions.

[Tony19821]

There was no risk at all for HIV and your symptoms don't sound like herpes at all more anxiety related.

[venu9181]

but do u think it is hiv

[Vance2335]

Post in HIV forum