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oral both ways with a sex worker.............. m,d hhh??/

Hello
28th of july i saw a sex worker, we performed oral sex on each other i came in her mouth after about 5 minuits but before that i gave her oral for about 15 mins i stuck my tounge in her virgina as well as just licking.
on the 29th of july i noticed my tounge felt slightly weird underneith i wes not sure if i had slightly split the membrain under it
1st of august i had sex with my wife  we had intercorse but i pulled out and came in her mouth at the end, not sure if i gave her oral i might of cant remember. but we did swap spit a few times,has she now got what i got?
on tuesday the 3rd of august i started to get a bit of a cough with thick plhegm and felt a little bit hot.
by thursday this had turned into a realy sore throat with a cough the cough would be yellow phlegm first thing in the morning and the the cough whould go dry  and quite persistent in the evening , i  tried to serch for a dry cough and std on the net and it kept  coming up saying HIV i was to scared to look into it further. im now scared about this please put my mind at rest.can you get HIV from giving oral sex?
friday  6th of august i took my self down the std clinic and he made me pee in a pot and took a throat swab ,he said my throat was red it could be a infection he said but not necercerrly a sexual one, im now waitingfor the results about ten days he said. he also said HIV was very rairly past on though oral but its not impossable
6th and 7th i was off my food sunday i felt like crap and spent most of the day laying on the soffa i managed to eat a small diner,oh i also had diraria for a few days
also going back to after the sex with my wife she develeped a cold two days after sex ,the same day my throat started to play up , we have a young baby at home  she now has the cold and a little cough , o what have i done!
monday tuesday and wednesday apitite fine bowls fine gammy eye on  wednesday night
today wake up eyes still bad and a bit swolen phlegm is a little bloody



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300980 tn?1194929400
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Glad we could help. Take care.  EWH
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Thankyou dr hook
as much as I thought I was I'm not you where right I just tested duo and as you said it was negative thank you
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300980 tn?1194929400
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I understand how guilt can amplify anxiety and concerns about symptoms such as those you describe.  Oral chlamydia is a vanishingly rare infection and when it occurs is typically asymptomatic. The clinicians who have been seeing you are being thorough and treating you in the hopes that treatment in the absence of a firm diagnosis will help to relieve your anxiety. They appear however to not be successful in those efforts  There is no change to my assessment or advice.  This is almost certainly not an STD and there is no need for further concern.  My guess remains that you have acquired some sort of none STD viral infection.  You have not given you wife anything.

I have nothing more to say.  Take care.  EWH
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Thanks docter as you can amagin I'm still worrying mainly becouse ivebern having weird syptoms that quite frankly imnot used to and theystarted 5 daysafter my exposer , bothmy eyes got conjutivitis I spoke to the gum clinic and they said it could possable be oral clamidia but this dose not normally corse syptoms anyway they took a eye swab and another throat swab just to check it out. I've also had a pretty itchy body now for 5 days alot on myface nose lip cheak ears and head I've scared myself again now idid a google search for itchy face STD and it though me back at a aids page and it sounds after reading    
It that it could be Seborrheic dermititis I've not gone scaley yet but I have a greasey look to my skin and itch in all the right places. I've also still not got a full appitite and have lost a little weight. I've only had sex with my wife once since a straid away and that was three days after my sw visit. Yestoday my wife became very I'll and was sick with vomit and direrere. Which ended up comeing out a bluey green culour, she dose feel a little beter today but she's only been up half a hour.
I've also not been able to shack of my tired ness, the gum clinic doc did give me a weeks corse of 100 Mg doxy to take twice aday. But don't seem to be helping but has stopes the bad cough I had.
Please take the time to read my posts again as imnow scared again
why are they checking for oral clamidia and whould this explain my symtoms? Youdont mention oral clamidia as a possabilly are they treating me for the wrong thing as he gave me them as a procoution, whould they also treat ngu the same way?
I've asked before but please reasure me again even if I did damage my tounge while giving oral like I mean cut it while inserted in to the vergina is this still the same low risk of HIV? Dose my syptoms sound like any other STD you can think of? I'm realy frightomed espeally after my wife becoming so I'll
eagerly awaiting your reply docter
thank you so much for you expert apinion
thanks
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300980 tn?1194929400
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None of this changes my original reply.  You need to stop worrying.  EWH
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One last thing I've just come home and my wife just told me she's got a boil on her fanny , it sore she said, great what could this meen
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Ok thanks so that stops me worrying so much about HIV  but I've still a couple of concerns, please be patient with me as I'm going crazy hear,.
I've still got the tickly cough and slight sore throat,
I've still got a manky eye that is a bit snotty just one eye
my lips still seem sore where they border my face
I'm still feeling abit tired and my penis seems srunk and small but still no discharge

is it safe to kiss my wife she kissed me and I gave her a peck back but I'm so scared shell cath something, also if she then puts the baby dummy in her mouth after it falls on the floor and then gives it back to the baby will the baby mow have it?
Thanks Docters please like I said be patient with me I'm so scared hear
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300980 tn?1194929400
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The symptoms you describe are those of a community acquired viral infection, not HIV.  HIV is still not a concnern.   EWH
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Thanks for the reply I feel a little better about it now but if you or the other docter could just answer a couple more concerns ....
Right it's now Thursday night my eye is still prety bad and a bit swolen with a bit of puss yellow stuff in the corner. I've had direrer again tonight not watery but realy runny. The coughs still with me at the mo. And I'm still not feeling myself.
I have had mild sweats  and awoke thismorning with a slightly wet back .today when I did get some phlegm up it was  a bit bloody as was my nose snot. Going back to my wife she just had a cold and not a sore throat. But today she has a few I mean about 5 spots on her face? She don't normally get spots, the baby still has a cold and mild cough.
So are you saying that HIV is not realy possable and you have never heard of a case though oral I only ask as you stated the odds of 1 in 10 000. And you thought that was high.
One last thing my lips are slightly red where they meet my face skin . Sorry to ask so many questions I'm just paranoid about my adventure and dead scared I've give it to my wife I also seem to have a lot of symtoms
thank you so much  
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300980 tn?1194929400
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Welcome to the STD Prevention Forum.  I can understand your concerns over this exposure and am happy to tell you that you have little to worry about in terms of STD or HIV.  

Oral sex is an inefficient way to transmit STDs.  Of the bacterial STDs only gonorrhea and nongonococcal urethritis (NGU) are transmitted through oral sex; chlamydia is not and without an obvious sore or lesion on your partner’s mouth, the chances of syphilis and herpes is likewise tiny.   If you had gotten gonorrhea or NGU you would have most likely developed symptoms of urethritis (penile infection) and the health care provider who evaluated you would have seen evidence of infection..  Even if your partner had an STD (any STD and it is likely she did not), most exposures do not lead to infection.

The quoted figure for HIV risk, if one has oral sex with an infected partner is less than 1 in 10,000 and, in my estimation that is too high. Some experts state there is no risk at all from oral sex.  Neither of us on this site have ever seen or reading the medical literature of a convincing instance in which HIV was passed by oral sex.  

My suspicion, particularly given the fact that your wife now has a similar sore throat problem is that this is a summer cold/flu-like illness.  I agree with the person who say you that this is probably unrelated to your encounter with the commercial sex worker on July 28.  I see no reason for concern or for further testing.  I hope that both you and your wife's colds get better quickly.  EWH
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