Welcome to the Forum. I'll be pleased to comment. Statistically your risk for gonorrhea is very, very low and your symptoms are not suggestive of any STI, including gonorrhea of the throat. In fact, most cases of gonorrhea of the throat are asymptomatic. Further, gonorrhea of the throat would not be accompanied by muscle aches. You may be coming down with the flu (across the U.S. flu rates are quite high at the moment) or some other community acquired, non-STI viral infection or this may be anxiety.
In the spirit of full disclosure however, I do also need to tell you that your doctor is incorrect about the clinical findings which accompany oral gonorrhea. It is usually asymptomatic and on examination the throat typically looks normal. Thus if it would ease your mind, a throat swab might be a good idea (and I do think an important part of addressing this is to ease you mind. To have symptoms which are not noticed when otherwise distracted is highly suggestive that anxiety is playing a role here).
I hope these comments are helpful. EWH
The internet is a poor source of information and often wrong. Symptomatic means that there are no signs and that the infection is best diagnosed by testing. EWH
There is so much conflicting info as to what the symptoms are on the internet. Knowing that it is almost always asymptomatic what would the signs be if they did present themselves? So we can all set the record straight.
Thank you so much for your knowledge and help Doc!
I should add that when I relax/occupy myself with work/ or have a few drinks I don't seem to notice the symptoms.