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protected sex with condoms and

I had sex with a girl 3 times. First time with a condom and with my boxer shorts on me. second time condom with NO boxer shorts on me and third time with comdom and boxer shorts on me. I had put on the boxer shorts to coverup my thigh and area around penis. Later I came to know what the girl had genital herpes and oral herpes since some years. She was also treated once Chlamydia some years ago. She had no outbreaks or cold sore when we were having sex. PLEASE let me know what are my chances of getting affected by herpes 1 or 2 and is there any risk to me due to Chlamydia?
Also how long should i wait to get a test done on me?
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You won't get a std from kissing someone. They don't travel from the mouth down into the genitals!

I encourage you to read the std info at www.ashastd.org to get more accurate info on std's and how they are transmitted.

If your gf had her chlamydia treated, it's not contagious anymore anyways.

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okay I was talking to this girl for about three months, and not too long we moved to the next by kissing....tongue kissing; We did this about three times before her telling me that she recently contracted chlamydia from her boyfriend. I talked with several clinics over the phone and looked over websites like these and they said you can't contact STD's from tongue kissing unless the herpes virus or if the partner or I had any open cuts or sores of the mouth. now I looked into the signs of chlamydia and I have no pain or burning sensation when I urinate or pain in the testes or any marks on me I even masterbated to view the discharge it was like one of the symptoms-being of a cloudy white and texture was weird like that of glue like substance  and I have a sore throat *Note: I'm not regularly having sex if so, of course with protection and I did not have sex with this girl just tongue kissing so what i want to know is from anyone who is a doctor or has elite knowledge about this to let me know did i contract chlamydia without actual sexual contact?

thanks i'd appreciate whoever helps :-) well not rly happy rite now :-(
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I still have those red bumps on my tongue, I think they are filled with water and i m having a sour throat. I think I have been contracted by hsv1 :(
but I am having no signs of fever or headache or anything other than those bumps on my tougue. Is this sufficient to call as herpes1?
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kissing doenst spread herpes unless theres n outbreak, the risk ofcourse is too small to worry about
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The girl called me up and told me that she has only oral herpes and not genital. I had sex with her on 9th night and had lots of kissing too and today 14th night I m experiencing sour throat and I see 5, 6 red bumps on my tounge, they are medium and pain less, I have not experienced pain or headache or fever etc.. I have experienced a little pain in my abdomeanal area but I dont know if thats the real pain, I think its just my imagination or too much of consciousness.
Can someone please confirm if these are the symptoms of the oral herpes????? I would appreciate the help.
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hiv-zero
bacterial std-near zero
hpv/hsv-possible
if she had hsv there was a 5% chance of shedding at the time ..with protection they say 2.5% chance of contracting.
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No after finguring I did not touch myself, infact I was touching her body and she was touching my penis, when I was finguring her. I hope that did not cause anything. Within 10mins of this, I went to shower and cleaned my whole abdomenal area, in fact whole body with a soap, atleast 3 times.
When I asked her about herpes, she said she had exposure to herpes, I dont think she knows 1 or 2. Does exposure means infection?????
Also she said she had be before, so even if I take this as one year before, then her body might have developed sufficient immunity by now to lessen asymptotic shedding, I hope and wish.

THANKS for your support and the answers, it means a lot to me at this point of time. Your any comments answers or extra information will be highly appreciated. Slowly I am also getting convienced that this was a low risk encounter. But I am still little worried, curious and going to wait for 3 weeks to see if there are any symptoms. I am also going to see my general physician to explain him the story and get his advise. I read that symptoms starts appearing within 2 to 20 days.

I had never done this kind of thing ever and after going through this freaking out and worried time I will not do it again, its simply doesn't worth it. Now I m just praying for getting one more chance to bring my life back on the track. I wish, hope and pray that I don't have any of these HSV.. etc.. But lets see.
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i understand your concern, i've experienced the same fear. i'm not in any way an expert on this, but will try to give you whatever advise i can. her pubic area coming in contact w/ your stomach -i don't know..i would say that is a very low risk exposure. the possibilities of you contracting HIV, i would consider 0, you used protection and it didn't break. the finguring thing isn't something to be concerned w/, unless you touched yourself afterwards. if you are not experiencing any symptoms, i would relax....but get tested when u get a chance so u can stop freaking out over this, be pleased that you wore protection. i wouldn't sleep w/ her anymore..since shes hiding all of this stuff from u.
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Thanks for ur response. Boxer shorts was a good idea but for one time I did not have them on me. Also when I had boxer on me while having sex, her area of pubic hair was touching my stomach, can it contract me for herpes?
Also later I found a strip of ATRIPLA medicine in her purse (which is a HIV medicine). Which means she could be HIV +ve too. During whole of my sexual encounter with her I kissed her (most of times not a deep kiss), I had sex with once without the boxer and twice with the boxer on and I also fingered her, for long time, but did not inserted my fingure in her vigina. Please,please tell me if there is any chance of getting contracted by HIV or HERPES or anything else. I will appreciate u help on this. I have gone mad from the time I came to know about HIV+ possibility and I m freaking out, cannot concentrate in any thing and not feeling to eat also. Please,please help.
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the chlamydia is not an issue..if you have kissed her you potentially have contracted hsv 1 (which is extremly common). you used protection each time which makes it a low risk exposure..plus i think the boxer shorts helped. it takes a couple weeks to potentially experience any signs or symptoms...i would wait a couple weeks since the last time you were together and then get tested...(if she's taking antiviral meds you're probably fine). you're probably fine regardless actually- if you don't have any sores i don't think they can differentiate between type 1&2 if u test positive.... i wouldn't worry about it, but get tested to put your mind at ease.
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