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really really need help

I am scared. I was irresponsible.My husband and I were having problems recently. I was feeling so ugly and despondent and I ended up having sex with someone I barely knew and now I am having a problem. I am afraid to go to the doctor, my husband will kill me for sure. I started itching all over my body about one or two weeks after the encounter. I also noticed some dark spots on the inner skin of my vagina, but they are not turning into sores or anything. they were not itching or burning until maybe two days ago. Its now two months since. I have been getting some buttons on my skin, like when a mosquito bite you. none of them got infected or anything like that. I do not have any sores anywhere including my mouth. my eyes are always itching doh and someone told me there was a slight yellow color to the right one. I have tried to get pictures on the various STD's but none of the photos are similar to what I have seen. please help. I am going crazy. I need help now
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Sorry just realized there were multiple versions of this post, and that it happened in December.  Disregard the timing information above.  I'd test for everything now.
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Well the first thing you should do is get a basic STD screen.  

It's too early to test for HIV, Hep B&C or HSV but you could test for Gonorrhea and Chlamydia immediately.  You could also test for Trichomonas, it's a common infection. It's a little early to test for syphilis.   If your "dark spots" do turn in to sores then you could have those tested for HSV, preferably by using PCR instead of culture because if the higher reliability.

You should also refrain from unprotected sex with your husband until you know your status.

It sounds like you might have a rash, I don't know what from but a rash can be associated with syphilis or HIV.  I'm not saying that's what you have, but those are two STDs with a rash as a possible symptom.  With syphilis it's typically on your hands/feet and HIV it's typically on the trunk of your body.

Itching eyes is not a STD symptom.

In the end, you are going to have to be tested.  So do so as soon as you can.
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