std- herpes -2

[guiltyy]

hey doc ,

I am extremely stressed over an episode which occur yesterday .

i have gone to an asian massage parlour in china :

The activities


1. condom protected oral sex ( any risk for std / herpes 2 )


2. open mouthed kissing which included sucking of lips by her on me , sucking of tongue by her on me and vice versa

    the duration of  open mouthed kissing   45 minutes

From my naked eye , i cannot see any active cold sore on her outer lips , . i did not check her inner lips ,


3. she fingerd my *** , i did not check her fingers

    i fingerd her *** , i have  say one day old cut on my finger .

    i fingerd her vagina very hard with  finger with cut  ( 25 minutes ) ( i saw bood stains on her underwear before putting finger in her ***** )

   i am sure she was mensturating , but when i put my fingrer hard insiide her ***** i did not see any visible blood   on my finger

   when i pressed this cut with my finger  , yes it emits blood although less
    

4. she sucked my nipples , she sucked my scrotum , testes balls .


5. the most dangerous thing which i think must have exposed me to hsv -2 but i need your specialist opinion :


  i put my penis in her *** crack and  ejactulated , in no case i penetrated her *** hole . i was wearing a condom ,same condom which she was  using for giving me oral sex


i am worried as she may have hsv -2 , on her *** although i did not see any sores or lesions with my naked eye , but  may be  shedding tissues :


6.how long i have to examine my body to check any symptoms .


i know this question is not supposed to ask here , but pleae doctor i will appreciate if you will answer ,

do i HAVE  any risk of hiv/ AIDS  from these episodes

if you think i have any risk , even if there is low risk please tell me how long i have  to wait to get tested for hsv -2 and hepatitis - b

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PLEASE HELP

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[Edward W Hook, MD]

Still no risk. STDs are not spread though the sort of intermediate contact that you describe.  EWH

[guiltyy]

dear doctor ,

i read some were on net that herpes cannot transmit by intermediate contact say a finger ( in my case from her vagina to her finger and then my *** ( deep) , my balls , my nipples , everywere on my body  , it has to be direct contact . is thi s true or there are less  chances??

please give me ciorrect guidance , very tense . dont even want to take my food due to stress

[guiltyy]

last quetsion and end of thread , i remeber her putting finger in her vagina and touching me everwhere on my body , my nipples , my balls , while fingering my *** if she have hsv-2 what are my chances to get that  

[Edward W Hook, MD]

This is a no risk exposure. Even if your partner did have an infection, the activities you describe are masturbation and there is no risk of HIV or other STDs from masturbation.  Similarly there is no risk of acquisition of HIV or STDs from kissing, even open mouth kissing.  I would not recommend testing for you as there is nothing you have said that warrants testing.  EWH