still worried and next steps

I continue to have made mistakes, and I feel quite guilty. I am working on bailing out of my poor lifestyle choices. Pretty stupid for a man my age I know.

But here's the summary of my misadventures. What are my risks and course of action?

(1) Had shallow but penetrative sex with a massage girl (she's 19 I found out). Chlamydia and gonorrhea tests came back negative. No other tests performed.

(2) Had oral sex the next week with another girl and rubbed on here wet vagina but did not penetrate her to my knowledge. Early 20's. No testing yet regarding her.

These first two were asked in a prior question; I accept and value Dr. Hook's advice on these.

(3) With another girl a few weeks later did cunnilingus although she was not especially wet. No testing yet regarding her. She is a 30 something. No testing yet regarding her.

(4) With still another girl about the following week received oral sex. Single mother, age 27. No testing yet regarding her.

Q>> Should I test for HIV, syphilis (as I haven't done this for any exposures yet)? Chlamydia and gonorrhea again? I only have definitive knowledge that I wasn't infected in the first (1) exposure to Chlamydia and gonorrhea.

Q>> Without further testing can I safely resume sex with my wife at this time?

Since this all started there has been no sex at home.

I am symptom free at this time, more than a week past my last error.

I hope I am clear on what I did this time.

Drs., thanks in advance for this wonderful service.

[Vance2335]

I see no reason for testing from your low risk exposures.

Up to you if you want to have sex with wife. You don't know 100% without testing if you have a STD or not.