syphilis question - involved in deep kissing and protected orall

[michaelbay1983]

Hello experts

I am having an anxiety attack so seeking some advice before I hit the dispensary for a test.

I had a sexual encounter 3 months ago with a csw where I was involved in protected oral , deep French kiss and also deep fingering. Till this day (3 months later) I do not see Any symptoms.
However I got tested for chlymedia,gonnaria  2 weeks later and HIV 3 months post exposure with all testing negative.
I did not get tested for syphillies.

Come past week my wife is having itching in the genital area. Please note that we never got involved in a any kind if a sexual encounter for the past 3 months.
I did not notice a sore or anything like that either in the pelvic/genital area or in the oral zone.
Do you advice me taking a syphillies test. Could the cause if the itching be syphillies.

Please suggest. Thanks in advance

[gracefromHHP]

most of our posters know their genital area so well they could recognize it in a photo line up. really, stop obsessing, call off the crotch watch and get yourself a better hobby than checking out your genitals :)

[michaelbay1983]

Thanks Again Grace....

My last question...

Is there any chance even a minute chance that I could be missing symptoms?

I have been checking all over my body for chancres/sores/rash...i did not find any???

[gracefromHHP]

you are worrying yourself needlessly. we don't play the "but what if" game here.

[michaelbay1983]

what if she had a sore in her mouth or vagina..do you think there is an exposure??? Please advice... thanks

[gracefromHHP]

protected oral sex is no risk for std's.  kissing and fingering isn't either.

you never needed any std testing done.

whatever is going on in your genital area isn't related to that encounter. typically it's just jock itch when it's just itching.

grace