Also, please do not ask questions that belong in forum in private message. Thank you.
I don't have any more remarks. You are not listening to the advice being given to you and trying to associate every single "symptom" you have with getting an std from a protected sexual encounter. I do not know how many times you need to be told that condoms are very effective in protecting against std's. And it is not very likely for you to get an std from oral sex.
Furthermore, the regular people who come to the board (including myself) are not obligated to be logged on 24 hours per day to answer questions. We are volunteers. That means we post in our own free time. You should read the "read before posting" sticky where it says this.
Mates, I guess I over stayed my welcome. Thanks for the help.
I haven't heard a response?, do you agree with the above statements?
I am usually not that persistent. I am just coping to understand my dilemma. Thanks mate.
any response will be welcomed mate?
I apologize for the lad remark. I didn't mean to say I only wanted vance advice I just preffered him due to him alrweady helping me. I did research and found
you are a staple in these forums. Your advice would be highly accepted. I have continued to feel these pains, stomach and bloated. Now my wife is feeling flu like symptoms. I am just worried. Thanks terrified.
Here's a couple things for you to look up:
Somatization disorder
Hypochondriasis
;) Sorry, take that in good humour. But if everyone has been telling you you have NO risk and your tests came back negative... guess what? The answer's pretty logical.
No offense except to please do not call me "lad". If Vance is the only person you will accept advice from, then I would like to hear what he has to say.
Lad, please do not get insulted. I was trying to get a response from vance for this particular matter, he has helped me immensely. I don't know what your experience level is, if you are indeed a community leader than I solely apologize. I have been in talks with vance so I just wanted to hear his expertise on the matter. Like I said if you are a community leader than i really do apologize and your input is welcomed.
No std causes red flat marks. Is this related to the same incident you originally posted about? The PROTECTED sex with a sex worker on craigslist? If so, you have been posting pretty excessively about this. Please read the "Please read before posting" sticky at the top of the forum. It seems that you are not really paying attention to the advice given and are looking for someone to tell you that you do have an std.
The point is that you had sex with a condom which is extremely protective against all std's. Please, try not to put yourself in this position again. It is causing you anxiety. You should also try the anxiety forum here on MedHelp. They may be able to help you find a way to come to terms with your situation.