You made two mistake, I think. (OK, three if you count the exposure itself.)
First, you didn't need herpes testing.
Second, I am suspicious that your provider didn't recommend the Western blot until/unless you raised that idea yourself. (Apologies if I am wrong on this.) If you had just requested a herpes blood test without specifying which one, you would have had the HerpeSelect test, which indeed becomes positive sooner than western blot.
But it makes no difference. You COULD NOT have acquired herpes during the exposure you describe--period, full stop, no argument. Therefore, the time since that exposure is meaningless in interpreting your test. Your negative western blot shows you are not infected. I recommend against further testing. Just forget the whole thing and go on with your life.
Regards-- HHH, MD
last question -- so taking the western blot test after 11 weeks would most likely yield a negative result regardless whether positive or not -- essentially making the test worthless? (only ask as i just had the test done this morning)
And even if you had been possibly exposed or infected (which is not possible for the exposure you describe), at 11-12 weeks a negative WB is 80-90% reliable.
HHH, MD