what are my chances?

[stupidman2]

I made an incredibly stupid decision to visit a massage parlor. What I expected was a massage and a happy ending. First thing she kissed me, I didn't stop her, Then other then the massage she gave me a BJ and licked my A'hole. Not being to brite, I didn't stop that either. She asked if I wanted more at least I didn't do that. I have been tested with herpes select and don't have either one. I have never had a cold sore.
I asked her if she had any thing, and she said she didn't, but she might not know or be honest. She did not have any sores. My question is what are my chances of catching herpes from a mistake like this. Would I have sores on my anus, **** and mouth?
Then the ultimate question is why does my **** override my head when I am horny?

[barn babe]

You were not at risk for herpes here. I guess with a BJ you could be at risk for type 1 herpes on your penis, but the chances are already greater than 60% that you already have type 1 oral herpes and have had it since being a kid or a teenager. So I'd even rule that out as  a possible risk. Fingering your anus is safe sex.

Why does your little head override your big head?

Sex is important to us. It's also REALLY fun and feels amazing. It's not sinful, dirty, or wrong. There's also nothing wrong with going to a sex worker or a masseuse, and if are anxious about STDs, keep it to safe sex - fingering, hand jobs, kissing.

Sounds like you would have had a happy ending if you had been a little more educated about safer sex practices. You weren't at risk from this episode, so forget about it. Stay away from massage parlors if you can't handle stuff like hand jobs and such.  

I think it's great that men have so much sex available to them so often. I'm female, and during the times I've had long stretches of being single without a partner, I would have loved to have known about a male massage practitioner who would have "done" me - with his hands or his mouth. I'd say it would be worth the cost of admission. That's not a happy ending, it's a blissful one.

[stupidman2]

I have been tested with herpes select for 1 and 2 IGG and both came back negative.
Then she licked my anus as well as fingered it. Considering the fact that I could have been exposed to all three areas at the same time. The question is would herpes 1 go to the mouth or all three places? She also used oil, I don't know if that would change things.