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28, constant sex drive leading to bad things
I constantly masturbate. Every day since I was 7 years old. I'm 28 now. Even if I'm having sex, I still feel the urge to slam off shortly after. I now have carpal tunnel, I look at really taboo porn to be able to get off, I waste money on hookers because I don't have to patience to lie my way into panties anymore, and I'm starting to think about what it would be like to do certain things to get off. Bad, horrible things. I fear I'm going to get myself in trouble if I can't somehow destroy my sex drive. This isn't healthy or normal or will going away soon. As said, I have masturbated every day at least once a day for over 20 years. It effects my job because I'm more oftwn than not in the bathroom beating off. I've been fired over it before. I can't stop. I think about sex constantly and I can't stop from following through and jacking off thereafter. If I'm dating someone, I drive them away eventually because I'm always wanting to **** and as time goes on, i like it rougher and harder and nastier so I can get off easier. My life is being destroyed and Im at the point of considering risking the medical risks of self castration before I land myself behind bars or contracting a disease from hookers because of where my sex drive takes me. I don't want this. I want it gone. Not toned down, but gone. I've orgasmed enough for 4 lifetimes, and I'd rather cut it away like a cancer than try to manage it.
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Kegel exercise and few breathing exercise to calm your emotions can be done while working, travelling, and any time. No body would know what you are doing. If your breathing is deep, slow and even, you will have less worry and you can have full control on your sexual urge. Of course this take time to get results.Patience and practice are the mantras.
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It is okay. I understand your situation. As such any sexual problem is worrisome. you may get result or you may not. Diagnosis differ. Different people behave differently to particular treatment. we have a doctor in this forum. you may address your post to him. I am sure you must have tried hormone therapy.
As you know monks are celibate. They do not achieve celibacy by will power only. they have techniques to reduce arousal. They become stronger in sexual power but they can control it. Their techniques work both ways. to arouse and to reduce arousal.Kundalini yoga is one of the popular technique of yoga. Taoist yoga also have different approach to sexual activity. DR. Eric steve ydlove has written a book on sexual kung fu. which is worth reading. Hundre day practice is the title of the book.
As you know monks are celibate. They do not achieve celibacy by will power only. they have techniques to reduce arousal. They become stronger in sexual power but they can control it. Their techniques work both ways. to arouse and to reduce arousal.Kundalini yoga is one of the popular technique of yoga. Taoist yoga also have different approach to sexual activity. DR. Eric steve ydlove has written a book on sexual kung fu. which is worth reading. Hundre day practice is the title of the book.
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I've tried what your suggesting, and it's not compatible. I live a hectic, extremely busy work life, and I don't have the concentration nor time for what this requires.
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Self castration will not kill your desire. It will convert into fantom (sp?) feeling, ruining your mood.You can convert your sexual drive into mental energy by circulating your sexual urge around microcosmic orbit. Google microcosmic orbit, learn it and practice it.There are chances that you can turn your life to most positive path. There is not harm in trying. Of course you will not get t shirt or refund. yes you can get refund of energy you have wasted.
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You will have to manage it as you cannot cut down the emotions. Only will power does not work on sexual matter. You will have to change your life style. For building your will power and chenalize your sexual power, you may do some breathing exercises. Start with abdominal breathing for 10 minutes twice a day. you can use this breath to calm your arousal.After some practice, it will effectively cool down your sexual drive and you can create a creative interest in sex. Sex is not bad if you control it and use it at the right place and at the right time. Google Pranayam and learn some breathing exercises to calm your sexual desire. Sexual desire will be converted into mental energy which can be used to improve your life. Read and learn and be with good people. Wish you best of luck.
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Gee why havent I thought of that before ? Been there done that and got a t-shirt and would like a refund
You don't get it. You think I haven't tried just about everything after 20 years of masturbation every single day? I've already started trying to find a doctor who will perform castration.
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