7 day's past, and she's on her period.

[hahaha123226]

7 day's ago me and my girlfriend had intercourse. With a condom and the pill ( she has been on it for a year now). she took it 20 minutes late, which by medical standards it's okay, but nothing longer then an hour for her type of pill ( Sprintec 28 Oral). the condom did not break, However, I was pulling out when i was finishing, and the condom was still on strong, but the base had slipped half way up my penis. It was a spermicidal condom. so most of the sperm was killed, but not all of it was. And we think a little may have stayed for the trip ( but  at least 99.5% of the *** was in the condom). She is on her period now, she's craving normal things. however she usually has it 3 days in this part of her cycle, and it did not happen. She called me freaking out, because neither of us are ready for a child. I know that stress is a huge factor in a missed period, but so can the pill itself.

All in all, we are both scared to death. Our parents would kill me, or just never talk to me again.

I'm honestly on the verge of throwing up, because I know a missed period can possibly mean a baby... which mean's our future life's that we had planned for after college are going to be incredibly hard to reach. I would like to become a doctor and she would like to become a teacher.

I need to know!!!
- should I go buy a Pregnancy test?
- How long Does sperm Live inside the vagina
- what are the chances of getting pregnant when she has a normal 28 day cycle
- what are the statistics of her getting pregnant 3 days before her period starts
- possible reasons for her missed period
- how reliable are spermicidal condoms
- all chances of getting pregnant without condom and pill
-all chances of getting pregnant with just the condom
- all chances of getting pregnant with just the pill
- all the chances of getting pregnant with both the pill and condom and then pull out before finish


I know it's a lot of stuff, but i need to know everything!

thanks to all who respond!

[hahaha123226]

Thank you so much! this really bring's down much of my worry!

[PurpleLush07]

if your really worried have her take a HPT (home pregnancy test) in two weeks chances are it will be a BFN (big fat negative) or if worse comes to worse go to the doctor and take the BetaHCG blood test and that will resolve this asap.  

[PurpleLush07]

If she has her period now then why are you worried? if you get your period its rare that you will be pregnant even though there is some cases were the woman will still get there period throughout. But it takes 6-12 days to implant. Just because you had sex and some may have gotten it doesn't automatically mean your pregnant. Me and my BF had sex for a whole year before we got pregnant and between the both of us we are very healthy and both are very fertile.