Aa
A
A
Close
Avatar_universal
Anal Sex problem
My boyfriend's fantasy is about anal sex

and he asks me for that. Besides, he tells me if you don't like you don't have to.
Although anything related to anus in sex

is a turn off for me, I tried to be flexible and caring. But I don't enjoy it and I feel at least I'll get physically hurt, and also I read about its risk of physical damages

I'm starting to feel in the long time it is a problem. How should I behave him to not hurt this relationship and be effective to change his mind?
Cancel
2 Answers
Page 1 of 1
684030_tn?1415615923
I'm not a doctor... but I can tell you from my experience that if you're not comfortable about engaging in anal sex (for any reason) then avoid it. And, simply tell him... no. Most men, at least the more sensitive or caring ones, will understand and not press the issue... few would take it personally.
My guess is that his hints may actually be hopes. And, maybe he figures that if he brings up the subject often enough that one day, you'll change your mind and say, yes.
Comment
Cancel
684030_tn?1415615923
Comment
Comment
Submit Comment
1275577_tn?1273236814
I can fully agree with iam1butterfly!!
He is waiting for you to give in, but if you don't feel comfortable with it just tell him in all honesty that this is not what you want to do and that it will never happen.
If he does not understand and does not respect your wishes, you might want to think about if he is serious and respectful to your feelings!!!

Good luck!!
Comment
Cancel
1275577_tn?1273236814
Comment
Comment
Submit Comment
Your Answer
Avatar_universal
Answer
Know how to answer? Tap here to leave your answer...
Answer
Anal Sex problem
Submit Answer
A
A
Blank
Weight Tracker
Weight Tracker
Start Tracking Now
Sexual Health Community Resources
RSS Expert Activity
233488_tn?1310696703
Blank
Marathon Running Done Over Many Yea...
May 21 by John C Hagan III, MD, FACS, FAAOBlank
233488_tn?1310696703
Blank
New Article on Multifocal IOL vs &q...
May 21 by John C Hagan III, MD, FACS, FAAOBlank
748543_tn?1443740527
Blank
TMJ/TMJ The Connection Between Teet...
01/15 by Hamidreza Nassery , DMD, FICOI, FAGD, FICCMOBlank
Top Sexual Health Answerers
139792_tn?1447663565
Blank
Indore, India
Avatar_universal
Blank
st. louis, MO
134578_tn?1446090952
Blank
Avatar_universal
Blank
Buffalo, NY
Avatar_universal
Blank
Sactown, CA
1236893_tn?1408490528
Blank