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Anxiety

Hello.
Recently I’m dealing with a strange situation. Normally in bed with my gf I’m a bull, 2-3 weeks ago we managed to make it 5 times in a single night. In the last 1-2 weeks I’m facing some problems to be concentrated when we lie down. Yesterday we were in my car and I was so horny that I was exploding inside my jeens all the time. But the moment we went in a quit place and got in the car back we started to get nacked I couldn’t get it up. Even in a moment when I managed to get it up she was taking off her underwear and I got blocked. I was thinking all the time why is this happening and I got the feeling of being blocked so we didn’t manage to do anything. When I went home, just to be sure I started my PC and watching to Porn and immediately I was on and OK. What kind of anxiety is this and how Can I deal with it? I am with my gf for 16 months now and this last 1-2 weeks I’ve started to face this issue. Before she was complaining that I was all the time turned on, and I’m still but when we lie down the first time I face difficulties in fully concentrating.
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Dear all, thank you for your comments. I guess it’s an anxiety issue when I notice that I don’t have an erection immediately and I start stressing my self with this stupid unsecurity.
I just came from office and I put on a Porn movie and immediately I had an erection, but I didn’t want to masturbate.
I have to find a way to face my anxiety, and more important find why I do have this anxiety
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Hi there, thanks for the private message with this query. I thought i would answer on your post rather than privately as it will help others and perhaps promote others answering your post.

I think that the reason why you were blocked or anxious, might have something to do with being in a car , rather than a private place.  If you're still being blocked at home, it might be that you' need to slow down and take a break from having sex so often. I'm no professional, if this continues, it might be that you find your answers by talking to  a therapist. My advice to you is to accept that you need to give yourself a break from sexual expectations for awhile. Make an appointment with a therapist, that will probably take a few weeks to get an appointment. If after a couple few weeks, you are still having a  problem go to the therapist and if not, cancel the appointment (with 24 hours notice so you won't be charged $$). Remember, that while 5x a day is something normal in your youth, that will radically decline as you age. Understand that and you might release a lot of the anxiety.  All the best to you.
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139792 tn?1498585650
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This may be a   temporary phase. It is normal. Take a holiday on sexual activity for 2 or 3 weeks and do not give any importance to this problem. If you do some breathing exercises like abdominal exercise or deep breathing you will return to your normal sexual activity.Search these exercises from related websites.Wish you best of luck.
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