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Athletic Female =More Masterbation(masturbation)?

by DDMole, Sep 02, 2008 12:02AM
Im a 26 woman, very healthy, and very active in work and exercise routines. I have always had a sexual appetite since I was younger, engaging in Masterbation (masturbation) since I was 10 or 11. Its been A routine every day or every other day to get off, since about the age of 16.

Now I find myself having to relief myself everyday sometimes 2-3 a day because I have a strong sexual desire to come. It's Not that I think about sex with many different people or sex all the time like a sex addict. Im fine being monogamous. It's just a painful like urge that has to be dealt with or else I cant concentrate!

And oddly enough, I recently lost 10 lbs and am constantly running, cardio working out, or pilates. The problem now is that I get these "erections" so have you that are almost uncontrollable. Tonight I was running home and my clitoris was on fire wanting me to relieve it! I also get ALOT of sensation when I do crunches or leg lifts.

Whats the deal??? I know there are people out there that dont want to *** at all. To me, its like clockwork.

Thanks!
Member Comments (12)

by SeriousSam, Sep 02, 2008 01:24AM
This is very often just a normal side effect of being in shape.

by SeriousSam, Sep 02, 2008 01:25AM
Just out of curiousity does the need recur as often when you have a partner?

by DDMole, Sep 02, 2008 10:38AM
To: serious Sam
Hmm... Well the sex need does. I like to have sex everyday, sometimes twice. Its not as bad an urge as the release I need from coming. Its all so strange! I feel like a 17 year old boy. Jk
seriously I know I'm not a nympho. Its funny, when our society depicts men as being the over sexual sensitive gender, I laugh to myself. Who could possibly have more of these urges than me!?

by junebug1, Oct 31, 2008 12:00PM
To: DDMole
Can't thank you enough for your post.  Ditto on everything you said, except I am 45.
I started seriously working out (cardio, pilates and strength training) about 2 years ago and noticed an immediate increase in my sex drive.  Started masterbating (masturbating) at age 11 and pretty much did so 1 to 3 times a day in my teens, 20's and 30's.  Now, in my 40's, as you described, I sometimes have to race home to relieve the build-up because I think I am going to explode.  Like clockwork, in the morning and around 3 in the afternoon and sometimes again later in the evening.  I have a healthy, loving sexual relationship with my husband, but he just can't keep up with me.  LOL  

I consider myself pre-menopausal and I am wondering if this "side effect" is just going to dissappear one day?  Not complaining, just wondering what caused it?  

by SeriousSam, Nov 16, 2008 04:58AM
To: junebug
It's probably a testosterone increase.

by deepdiver, Nov 16, 2008 09:04AM
To: DDMole
I'm 63 and have sex with my wife or masterbate every day (EXCEPT WHEN I'M SICK :-) )
I've started masterbating (masturbating) at about age 8 or 9. I also lift wt. and workout every day,
I have a complete home gym

by SeriousSam, Nov 16, 2008 11:37AM
To: deepdiver
Good for you!  But what pointing are you making?  Though I do appreciate a good brag!  lol

by deepdiver, Nov 16, 2008 02:37PM
To: SeriousSam
If you would read all i'm agreeing with  DDMole!!! very healthy, and very active in exercise routines
not a brag!!

by SeriousSam, Nov 16, 2008 03:13PM
To: DD
No harm No foul?

by dfs637, Apr 15, 2009 03:41AM
i have to masterbate every day or every 2 days otherwise it aches and i can not concentrate, i do not think about men or sex , i am a loving wife and mother and 1000% loyal and sex does not interest me , its just a physical ache that is relieved from the orgasm and gets rid of any stress or confusion ... i have to tel meyself not to feel guilty its just the same as going to the toilet or have a poo every day...we dont beat ourselves for that and this is no different..its healthy and just another cycle .. the energy fills up and it then it gets emptied by masterbation (masturbation) or sex with your partner and then  you just carry on with life.
my partner helps me all he can and we call them "empties" rather than sex or masterbation (masturbation)

by zz133, Apr 29, 2009 09:20PM
To: DDMole
Women who exercise a lot, produces more testosterone, thus increasing sexual libido. That's why many female pro athletes starts developing male traits. But you're probably a long ways from that. Orgasms dumps out some testosterone so it would be a good thing to help you in not getting that mustache.

by byrnee, May 07, 2009 02:18PM
i am about to turn 30, and within the last two years, my sex drive has sky rocketed.

Sadly, I haven't found "the one" and don't want to settle and i don't really believe in "friends with benefits", but i am starting to feel this is the only way.

I despise my sex drive, because on many occasions i wake up at 3am, because i cannot sleep and i am so incredibly tense and turned on (but it is annoying not pleasureable) i have to relieve myself, but sometimes i am so exhausted, that i will try for 2 hours and will not reach orgasm.

It really is not a laughing matter. i feel like it is a major impediment.

I empathize with men, because i now know how they feel. it is like you need food or oxygen, the feeling is so incredibly overwhelming. Sometimes i cry at night wishing i could meet the one, and not wanting to settle for just "any" guy.
i know if you get on birth control it will decrease your sex drive. i just hate taking it if i don't need it.
i wish there was a cure, where you could flip your sex drive on or off.
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