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seriously I know I'm not a nympho. Its funny, when our society depicts men as being the over sexual sensitive gender, I laugh to myself. Who could possibly have more of these urges than me!?
I started seriously working out (cardio, pilates and strength training) about 2 years ago and noticed an immediate increase in my sex drive. Started masterbating (masturbating) at age 11 and pretty much did so 1 to 3 times a day in my teens, 20's and 30's. Now, in my 40's, as you described, I sometimes have to race home to relieve the build-up because I think I am going to explode. Like clockwork, in the morning and around 3 in the afternoon and sometimes again later in the evening. I have a healthy, loving sexual relationship with my husband, but he just can't keep up with me. LOL
I consider myself pre-menopausal and I am wondering if this "side effect" is just going to dissappear one day? Not complaining, just wondering what caused it?
I've started masterbating (masturbating) at about age 8 or 9. I also lift wt. and workout every day,
I have a complete home gym
not a brag!!
my partner helps me all he can and we call them "empties" rather than sex or masterbation (masturbation)
Sadly, I haven't found "the one" and don't want to settle and i don't really believe in "friends with benefits", but i am starting to feel this is the only way.
I despise my sex drive, because on many occasions i wake up at 3am, because i cannot sleep and i am so incredibly tense and turned on (but it is annoying not pleasureable) i have to relieve myself, but sometimes i am so exhausted, that i will try for 2 hours and will not reach orgasm.
It really is not a laughing matter. i feel like it is a major impediment.
I empathize with men, because i now know how they feel. it is like you need food or oxygen, the feeling is so incredibly overwhelming. Sometimes i cry at night wishing i could meet the one, and not wanting to settle for just "any" guy.
i know if you get on birth control it will decrease your sex drive. i just hate taking it if i don't need it.
i wish there was a cure, where you could flip your sex drive on or off.