Me and boyfriend have been having sex for about a year now and lately during intercourse he gets soft. He's rock hard when we foreplay and during oral sex. Usually we'll start where he's on type and he stays hard. The transitioning of positions gets him soft but I can give oral to get him back rock hard. When I'm riding him he gets soft. He acts like he loves it when I'm on top. He's even told me that's his favorite position. I end up just getting frustrated and I give up. I just don't understand. I'm thinking I'm just not attractive to him anymore but he says that it's not that. And we don't even use condoms so I'm just really confused. What's the problem? Someone help!
Hi Baby, There could be lots of things, sometimes as men if we dont stay focused we lose it, could be stress, also he could be masturbating to much. I would not like to say things like he's going off you, as we have never met, but please dont think that way.
Now have a google of this, dodson and ross, you may find an answer there, dodson is Dr Betty Dodson, she answers lots of the quetions on there, so if you can t find a better answer post her.
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