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Can ejaculate but not penetrate and ejaculate - help!
Hi there,
To be as blunt as possible, I have been experiencing sexual problems throughout my life, thought it was my mindset and what I was thinking, was with my ex for almost two years, loved her to bits and yet when it came to sex, I did mange to get an erection but wasn't able to ejaculate. I did find her sexy. I thought maybe it was my mindset, thinking of different things that were stopping me going all the way with her, alot of the time though my focus wasn't even on different things, it was on her. I then blamed tiredness, and all the other excuses but maybe I was wrong to do that? The fact is, whether it's confusing or not, I have been able to ejaculate in front of her by myself and thinking about her! I have come across something called secondary impotentency for the first time in the last couple of hours, despite being in well over 3 years of psychosexual therapy and not being told about this. I was recommended not to take any drugs when I was in therapy like viagra and the likes and to allow nature to take it's cause. My ex even came to some of the sessions to speed up the recovery when we were dating.
Is there anything I can do? Will more therapy resolve the problems despite not being able to during an almost 2 year relationship with a very special woman, bearing in mind, I find it fairly easy to ejaculate in front of her when we were together? Do I have to resort to drugs and so on? Or maybe drugs won't help this matter as maybe it's not even neccessarily a physical problem?
Finally, are there any impotence dating websites out there - I did google impotent dating for men and found nothing?!
Thank you.
To be as blunt as possible, I have been experiencing sexual problems throughout my life, thought it was my mindset and what I was thinking, was with my ex for almost two years, loved her to bits and yet when it came to sex, I did mange to get an erection but wasn't able to ejaculate. I did find her sexy. I thought maybe it was my mindset, thinking of different things that were stopping me going all the way with her, alot of the time though my focus wasn't even on different things, it was on her. I then blamed tiredness, and all the other excuses but maybe I was wrong to do that? The fact is, whether it's confusing or not, I have been able to ejaculate in front of her by myself and thinking about her! I have come across something called secondary impotentency for the first time in the last couple of hours, despite being in well over 3 years of psychosexual therapy and not being told about this. I was recommended not to take any drugs when I was in therapy like viagra and the likes and to allow nature to take it's cause. My ex even came to some of the sessions to speed up the recovery when we were dating.
Is there anything I can do? Will more therapy resolve the problems despite not being able to during an almost 2 year relationship with a very special woman, bearing in mind, I find it fairly easy to ejaculate in front of her when we were together? Do I have to resort to drugs and so on? Or maybe drugs won't help this matter as maybe it's not even neccessarily a physical problem?
Finally, are there any impotence dating websites out there - I did google impotent dating for men and found nothing?!
Thank you.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Whenever there is a little doubt, we may have multi-pronged approach to health problem . It is good that you are aware of your problem and doing best to stave off the problem.
Given that I was able to ejaculate without too much of a problem in front of my ex, I then met someone and was with them for a short time and was able to ejaculate practically within the first couple of weeks of knowing them by myself outside of them as I do recognise that maybe there are elements of psychological factors involved, hence not being able to do it straight away, I can't possibly associate this with any form of anejactulation. I have been through the definitions, and none of them correspond to this particular problem.
Kegel leads onto pc muscle exercises which I can certainly do - even at work lol, ironically it was spoken about towards the end of my psychosexual therapy, but I don't think this is enough by itself.
Kegel leads onto pc muscle exercises which I can certainly do - even at work lol, ironically it was spoken about towards the end of my psychosexual therapy, but I don't think this is enough by itself.
COMMUNITY LEADER
visit the following website and find out whether it can help you.
http://www.drmalpani.com/anejaculation.htm
I think you will get the answer to your problem. you may also do some holistic therapy. It is a male deer exercise. google the pherase. Kegel exercise, anal peripheral prostate massage, perineum massage are also indicated in these sexual conditions. You may also learn circulating sexual energy around the microcosmic orbit. You may google all the words I have mentioned.
http://www.drmalpani.com/anejaculation.htm
I think you will get the answer to your problem. you may also do some holistic therapy. It is a male deer exercise. google the pherase. Kegel exercise, anal peripheral prostate massage, perineum massage are also indicated in these sexual conditions. You may also learn circulating sexual energy around the microcosmic orbit. You may google all the words I have mentioned.
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