Can you give someone an STD if you have had sex with two virgins?

[pianolover166]

To start off, I have had two sexual relationships. My first boyfriend and I were both virgins and then we had unprotected sex maybe a year ago (we were free from any STD's). We ended up breaking it off and I met someone else. Now here we go again with the unprotected sex. Mind you (I have had an IUD placed in about a year ago..but it was not placed in for birth control and more of health reasons). The second man I have had unprotected sex with was a virgin before me. Now, my concern is I noticed an interesting skin patch on his penis. It does not hurt or irritate him, it is skin colored and an irregular shape and it is not large. What my main concern is that I could have given something to him. If I google anything, it leads to saying either cancer or genital warts. It scares me to know I could have been the cause of this for him. I have had no symptoms of any STD, but I know that you many never know you have had something months or years later. My main question is, could I have given him an STD if the 1st person I had sexual relationships with we were both virgins and the person I am having a relationship with now was a virgin as well? I'm deeply sorry if this is confusing in any way.

[AnnieBrooke]

BV is a bacterial infection, but on the guy the only concern would be him passing bacteria back to the woman after she has been treated.  It wouldn't look like a patch on his skin.  To give you an STD, your partner would have had to have an STD.

This is not to say neither of your partners has or had an STD.  Kids in my state have apparently been giving each other oral on the mistaken impression that it prevents STDs, and have been giving each other gonorrhea.

I guess I would just ask my boyfriend what the patch on his penis was caused by.  He probably knows.

[pianolover166]

I assumed maybe it could have come from bacteria. But thank you for your help!

[AnnieBrooke]

If your first boyfriend was a virgin and never slept with anyone besides you during the time you were having sex with him, and then you didn't sleep with anyone else until this new guy, and the new guy was a virgin when you met and has not slept with anyone else since you met, where would you or he have gotten an STD?

Anyway, go see your ob-gyn and get swabbed for all STDs, and while you're at it for BV as well, and then forget it.  If he has something you did not give it to him.  After getting clean results from your doctor, you would then be able to ask him with a clear conscience if he has ever had that patch on his penis looked at by a doctor.