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Can't Feel Sexual Pleasure in Intercourse
I am 24 years old male. I have been masturbating for long time and lately I had sex twice and I couldn't feel pleasure during the intercourse at all. I was able to have an erection in the beginning but after I couldn't feel anything I lost the erection and couldn't get it back.

I masturbated straight after sex and I was able to have an erection, ejaculate and feel pleasure.

I am not sure what is the problem. I think maybe am used to a certain "hand grip" while masturbating (for long time now) which is not the same while having sex. And/or I am used to stimulate myself using imagination rather than reality. I don't think my partner was not attractive or had an unusually wide vagina.

Please help.
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You have pretty well diagnosed your problem.  As you say, you have gotten so used to satisfying yourself in a certain way that works every time.  So when a real live partner is involved, it just doesn't feel the same.  You could experiment and see if you could get off by her giving you oral or a hand job, then satisfying her in a similar way.  But otherwise you should lighten up on the masturbation if you want to eventually have successful sex with a partner.
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