Can't get an orgasm

[rinekate]

I'm a 25, and have been married for four, but i have never experienced an orgasm. can this be a medical problem cus i really need help. I enjoy intimacy with my husband, but at the moment its all one-sided in the bedroom department. it's starting to affect sex life as i see there's no point. i need help.

[Vance2335]

Well not all women can have orgasms, you might be one of them. I had a girlfriend 10 years ago or so who never had one no matter what I did. So I spoke to a friend and she advised me to talk with her and have her masterbate a couple of times alone and see what happens. She took my advise and did have her first orgasm. After that I tried to give her one orally but it didn't work, so she masterbated alone again and again she had one. So next time she masterbated in front of me and did that several more times. So after we did that I again tried to orally please her and it worked. She could not have an orgasm through intercourse just my hand/toy or orally.
You should try what my old girlfriend tried, sometime women just need to masterbate to start to get to know their bodies. Masterbation (masturbation) and oral sex is the easiest way for a woman to have an orgasm. A lot of women can not have an orgasm during intercourse. My wife can't and about 1/2 of the women I slept with could not.