I had this problem and i brought it up in conversation and we tried more foreplay and it seemed to work?
I can´t think of any general advice because each woman is different in her orgasmic capacity and in the effective ways of stimulation or forms of arousal which can be effective in her individual case. Moreover, female sexuality seems to be really mysterious and changing with time (or even from one day to the next:).
I suppose that it may help sometimes if you explore your sexual responses via masturbation or selfpleasuring and then try to adjust the stimulation (manual, oral or vaginal sexual intercourse) of your partner to some ways which have the chance to get closest to the effective ways of self-pleasuring. Or, if the position when you were on top helped for you, I would suggest trying it that way, or at least when you feel close to climax, you can rub your sensitive parts against his body and help it happen in this way.
Above all, I am afraid that the more you focus on the problem and the more you want it to happen, the more stressful it becomes and the less likely it is to happen. Easier said than done - I know - personally, I tend to concentrate on all kinds of problems which reduces my chances to find an effective solution... But if you and your boyfriend were able to "forget" about your orgasms for some time, it might help. But again, I must admit that I have never been able to "forget" about it when there was a problem with something similar...
In this case i would recommend a pill which helped me and my boyfriend a lot.
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But you have to be very careful while going for Viagra. You have to get clear answers for some of the questions like,
*What are the benefits of the product?
*Does it contain any drugs that will harm your hormones in future?
*Does it contain stimulants?
*Does it has any side effects reported?
*Since when are they manufacturing the product?
*what are the ingredients added?
*Value for your money, ie does it guarantees a money back?
etc.
i kinda have the same problem.
except that i don't EVER climax, let alone take a long time...
i don't know what to do. not much turns me on and yes, i love it when guys touch the G-Spot but it never makes me climax....... and i've had sex like 40 times now...
my current "boyfriend" doesn't know what to do and is kinda worried. all i can say to him is that i enjoy seeing him enjoy himself, which i do, but i wanna feel it too, to enjoy it with him........