Do I need a shrink or a urologist?

[Aumnachi]

It's been over a decade since I've had a sex partner or have had any sexual relations with anyone. So a few years back I started pushing my penis inside myself for gratification. Problem is I don't know how normal this conversation is going to be. I was purchasing dildo's to shove my penis further into myself and at some occasions I felt a ping of sharp pain almost like the skin or muscle inside me just detached itself. I would slow down and work it in slower till it went full hilt. About 2 years ago I started using double sided dildo's to make it a hands free experiment. This year for a resolution I decided to stop doing this to myself because I was beginning to wet the bed and didn't even know I was till after I had woken up. I think I need to see a urologist because I tried pumping my penis out of my body and it came out as a big bulge of muscle instead. How would one even approach a urologist let alone your PCP?  Today when I use the bathroom I've grown accustomed to the burn and have had 4 UTI's last year alone. Now one thing I want to say is I swing both ways and it's not a gender psych problem.

[AnnieBrooke]

It sounds like a physical exam is in order to be sure you have not separated any muscles that are important for bladder support or other reasons.  

[Aumnachi]

Thank you for your advice

[Harv_c]

Get an appointment with a urologist as soon as possible to fix this and quit doing this.  I am surprised a doctor seeing this for the antibiotics needed for UTI has not directed you accordingly.

[gymdandee]

You need to be frank with the urologist and tell him everything!! Doctors have seen and heard it all.