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Do Not Have Enough Time and Want to Overcome Masturbation


I am a 28 years old man and unmarried. I am used to masturbation twice in a
week for two years, sometimes once in a day. But before that I had many
sexual intercourses. Suddenly I started to feel that I am suffering from premature ejaculation.

I will be married this year but maybe within 6 to 8 months. I am very
worried about it because there is no long marriage life without sex.

I have heard about Zoloft and Dapoxetine that they are good in this
condition but never tried yet. There are also some side effects of these
medications.

But I need your help and advice that what medicines I should use or what I
should I do?

Sometimes I face erectile dysfunction. But erection is best in the morning. This time it's not under consideration.

Please Help me
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5066444 tn?1363089832
My dear pal, smartest thing I'd do is to check out a Urologist. Although be the better to unravel this issue for you. In addition, idea also emotional problem too.

Anyhow, hope that the small better half and you are properly and also cheers for you to that the concern is going to be solved soon.
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Hi Adult, So you watch porn, its your downfall, if you dont stop will only lead to ED, through porn enduced ED, the best thing you can do is lose all your porn sites, clear away any downloads you have, and throw away any discs you have, its your brain its getting fall of to many sexual images and these are giving you PE, and as the doc said you cant have ED if you get morning woods, you problem is from porn.
If you cant understnad what the doc is saying how to get over your PE problem, just google prgym, and on there look for an exercise called edging, and just follow the program.
Good Luck
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563773 tn?1374246539
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello,
Try distracting yourself when you feel you are about to ejaculate. Take a deep breath and stay relaxed during intercourse. Also do not worry about performance and talk to your partner openly about any apprehensions if you have.

Other treatment methods which can be followed are stop-start or squeeze-pause technique. In stop start technique, near ejaculation withdraw from your partner and relax and think about something else. In squeeze- pause technique, squeeze the end or the tip of the penis for 10 to 20 seconds when you are close to ejaculation and then resume stimulation after withholding for half a minute. If the symptoms persist then desensitizing creams and SRRI (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) may need to be prescribed for which you have to consult a urologist. A urologist will be the best person to guide you through this.

It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.







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Thanks for your reply.

A new thing happened to me today. I am used to mastubrate during or after watching porn videos not using any oil on pennis and I reach to the climax within 2 minutes.

But today I mastubrated without watching porn videos and I used coconut oil on my pennis. I started to mastubrate slowly and slowly and I reached to the climax in 3 minutes and 40 seconds. I know it is still less but something good for me.

I don't understand how it happened. Where am I making mistake. What should I do next ?
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563773 tn?1374246539
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello,
If your morning erections are good then the cause is psychological and pre mature ejaculation can also be psychological. Try distracting yourself when you feel you are about to ejaculate. Take a deep breath and stay relaxed during intercourse. Certain creams have local anesthetic that can reduce the sensation of the penis. You can also check with a sex therapist to tackle this issue. You must understand that these tips involve practice and time for better control.

It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.







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