Doesnot feel anything during sex

[shazil]

Hi,
I have a 6 inch male member size and there is only one woman i have ever had sex with. The woman i had sex was my ex.

My problem is that she had a really wet vagina and as soon as i we go intimate she gets too wet and when i go inside her neither i feel anything nor does she after a while. and sex becomes joyless. offcourse i was still able to get climax but it takes a long long time for her to get to it and after much effort she gets something but not always. This irritated me a lot. I had tried all positions. I am now worried to have sex with any other woman and seriously thinking to get penis enlargement of some kind. Otherwise i am a very hot blooded person and i have to have sex atleast twice a week otherwise i have to masturbate to kill my heat.
My question: Is my penis size too small for her or any other woman?
Secondly: should i try penis enlargement because i am scared of side effects.
Third: Am i a sex addict or do i have a sexophobia ?
Kindly help
regards shaz

[shazil]

Thanks a lot your reply is quite satisfying for me :) its just that i have been only been with one woman who i have loved and no other so i dont have much idea how women get satisfied but your reply gave me quite nice feeling about myself :) thanks alot.

[777erica]

I am a 25 year old woman, and i have been sexually active since i was 17 i have had about 10 different partners all different. I have been able to climax with a 4 inch man, and i have been able to climax with men of 10 inches. size does not matter at all to me personally, it depends on the level of attraction, and feelings for a man in my case.

I too suffer from a wet vagina when turned on. My boyfriend is about 6-7 inches and when he is on top or behind it is very hard for me to climax. We have recently discovered something that helps alot. being that neither of us like to go for hours, we do this, while he lays down i give him oral. I position myself to where my vagina is facing him and rather than him performing oral on me at the same time (which distracts me) my positioning allows him to fondle my clitoris, vagina, and anus with his hand. Then after we are both ready to climax i get on top of him and we perform cowgirl, which allows me to feel him inside of me more completely and almost immediately and at the same time we climax.

This may or may not work for you but it certainly helps us. However, we are very passionate and our feelings are very high so this might have something to do with it.

You are not a sex addict, and there is nothing wrong with the size of your penis i have had 13 inches and never climaxed. Do not assume that you or the size of your member are the problem, this might be an issue of hers.

I agree with posts before me, you and yours is perfect for somebody. good luck

[shazil]

Thanks all :)

[severin76]

I don´t think that your penis is too small, the size of the instrument is not so important as it may seem - just think of the size of fingers and fingers can do the job perfectly, or vibrators - usually women (not in porn, but in reality) do not insert extra-big vibrators in their vaginas when they masturbate.
It is not just about you - it depends also on your girlfriend - some women can reach orgasm only with the help of clitoral stimulation, no matter how big the penis is. The reason why you cannot satisfy her only with your penis may be also that she cannot reach orgasms through vaginal stimulation alone and that she needs clitoral stimulation to climax.
As for vaginal stimulation with penis, in my case it helps when my girlfriend puts some pillow or shirt or something under her bottom when we are in missionary position, she says it helps her to get her Gspot stimulated in this way.
I would NOT go for any penis enlargement, because it can be dangerous and it can do more damage (erectile dysfunctions etc) than good.
To the last two questions in your original post: no, I do not think that you suffer from sexophobia and I really do NOT think that you are a sex addict. Me, personally, I need sex twice a DAY and I do not consider myself a sex addict. I need food 2-3 times a day and I am very thin  and I would not call myself a food addict:)).
If you need sex twice a week, it is perfectly normal - within the average levels, so do not worry...
Good luck!

[shazil]

Thanks for replying
I am able to please her other ways but the thing is that there is always a bad feeling for me that i cant please her by my penis completely. many times i have to use a towel to soak her. but the thing is that she feels only when i go inside her but when inside she feels not much and neither do i.
Before me she only had sex with one guy and with him not many times nor she has ever been pregnant so its quite strange that she has a big vagina. Fingering/sucking helps but i have always wanted to satisfy a woman with my penis. one more thing when i put my finger inside her i am able to touch the end of her womb but by penis i dont feel it and my finger is smaller than my penis.
I have always heard from doctors that penis enlargements are scams but then how pornstars have such long penis?

[kittengamer]

Vaginas are as varied as peni & that means there are women whose structure is the right match for you. So before jumping to drastic measures, give yourself at least a couple of tries first. ^_^ In the meantime really look into other ways to pleasure women outside of just straight intercourse. Do not forget clitoral stimulus. That can really tighten things up.

No, there is nothing wrong with needing sex twice a week! It bugs the heck out of me when that is all life gives me & my husband time for. =/

[Amora]

Ok, for one thing, it differs from all types of girls. It could be that that her wombs was to large for you, and dont try penis enlargemtns, there are other ways to pleasure  a women