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Don't enjoy sex

I'm 21 years old and never had a orgasm I only have orgasms when I touch my self or use a vibrator. I love it when a guy fingers me but when they put there penis on me it doesn't feel good I am so tired of trying so hard to enjoy sex my ex did stress me out a lot and wanted to have sex after making me mad and I only did it so he can be happy. Also I don't like oral sex it doesn't turn me on at all I tried having my ex use my vibrator on me but I felt weird doing that. Tried buying cream from a sex store that's suppose to make me feel Horny tried using a sex pill and that didn't help right now I'm done having sex I've decided that maybe its because I only want one person my first love the only one that treated me right but he's in jail and I do plan on waiting till he gets out its a long time but he is the only one I want
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Also, anal sex.
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Get on top and ride. When my bf is on top..nothing.
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consult your gynecologist/urologist to find out if there is any medical problem. If it is ruled out you may do Female deer exercise.Google this phrase and learn the details of the exercise and do it regularly. you may get result in a month's time.. Kegel exercise can also help. Learn abdominal breathing. Combine it with contraction of your perineum  muscle.This combined action will stimulate your sexual urge.Google the above words to learn details.
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