I'm 21 years old and never had a orgasm I only have orgasms when I touch my self or use a vibrator. I love it when a guy fingers me but when they put there penis on me it doesn't feel good I am so tired of trying so hard to enjoy sex my ex did stress me out a lot and wanted to have sex after making me mad and I only did it so he can be happy. Also I don't like oral sex it doesn't turn me on at all I tried having my ex use my vibrator on me but I felt weird doing that. Tried buying cream from a sex store that's suppose to make me feel Horny tried using a sex pill and that didn't help right now I'm done having sex I've decided that maybe its because I only want one person my first love the only one that treated me right but he's in jail and I do plan on waiting till he gets out its a long time but he is the only one I want