Ejaculation issue

[Thespealist1]

So, I'm 31 black male very fit in the military my wife is 32 and recently I have noticed that her vagina is....loose I thought maybe we were having too much sex so we would have sex maybe twice a week and still her vagina walls are loose like there simply is zero friction , my penis is 9 inches but I figured with having less sex would give her time to tighten up .
My wife has noticed that I'm not ejaculating period I have had my T levels checked and there normal ,I simply don't enjoy having sex with her.
I was going too ask if she was cheating but...its just not logical too me she is very sensitive emotionally.
Should I suggest she see a doctor .
And refuse to cheat on her just too be sexually satisfied so I just don't understand why she is this loose at the age of 32 ???

[Dalubaba]

Ask her to do kegel exercise. Google kegel exercise. and both of you can learn kegel exercise. Kegel is for strengthening PC muscles. It will strengthen her vaginal muscles and pelvic floor. while doing intercourse, you can kegel alternatively. when you kegel, movement of your penis will be vertical giving her different sensations. when she kegels, you penis will be gripped better by her vagina. kegel is reocmmanded  by doctors.

[Dalubaba]

I understand the DNA test is to prove paternity of child and not for virginity. Doctor can tell whether a woman is used to sexual intercourse by physical examination of vagina.

[nitu99]

Hello , my friend was love failure r . She was participated with her lover previously . after one year , she got married with other person. her husband suspecting her like , breast is loose , and vegilnal is also loose . He is going for DNA test . Does DNA test  Reports matches with husband or her lover ?

[Dalubaba]

Some one has claimed that anal peripheral prostate massage is better than kegel exercise for sexual purpose. Even woman can do it for this purpose.  Google the phrase. This one of the 4 types of prostate massage.You will get all details in the websites.

[YardBull]

Make sure you are doing plenty of foreplay to get your wife ready for sex.  You might want to have more sexual variety with her so that sex is not predictable with intercourse every time.  Since you mentioned not ejaculating, ask your wife to give you a slow lubricated handjob to see if you can ejaculate that way with more grip than with her vagina.  

[Thespealist1]

I meant I my self do kegal exercises

[Thespealist1]

Iy self do kegel I can get her too try it .
When I'm having sex with her its like she has no walls ?
I do know that she urinates Alot and has trouble holding her urine at times but she has had a partial tubal ligation about four years ago ,the issue is I would like another child she tells me it is possible but I don't feel like it is after four years .