Gastrointestinal perforation (Puntured rectum) and anal masterbation(masturbation) a concern...

Yeah this is going to sound really weird... but im 19, male and heterosexual and from time to time i enjoy anal masturbation, i also like to enjoy it roughly too.

About 5 days ago I did this and i seem to have a fullness in my bladder... its not severe pain at all... I decided that last week was my last time doing this so i went all out, so i went a little deeper and took some ecstasy while doing it.

I've been doing this for years and never had any problems with it being rough and the device is big...

Im just wondering if i need to be concerned about Gastrointestinal perforation or if im just being paranoid and the fullness is just the typical feeling you would get after anal masterbuation

[Zilian]

Hi.

Anal masturbation or anything related to anal sex is not my cup of tea. You should be careful of what you stick up there and how deep you do it. You should come up with a better description of what do you feel. I don't think your full bladder has something to do with anal masturbation.

See you.

[Crystlas]

I am more concerned about you doing ecstasy than anal masturbation.  That drug is dangerous.  As far as anal masturbation, a lot and I mean a lot of men love to stimulate their prostate because if feels so good.  My man loves to use a butt plug on himself while I ride him.  It is hot.... so don't feel weird about it.  I do know that with any anal stimulation you have to be careful not to be too rough or you can hurt yourself.  The anus was not intended for stimulation in the first place, therefore, you need to take that into consideration and be careful with it.  I goggled gastrointestinal perforation and that is not what you have.  It is something that starts with the stomach having a hole in it.  I don't think you jammed yourself hard enough to reach your stomach and puncture a hole :0-)  My ex-husband was an abusive @sshole and would anally rape me.  I would always have that same feeling you described.  Like I said it is a delicate area, treat it with care.  

[HysarXS]

Yeah my pelvic area feels kinda sore like when you have to use the bathroom... its not a sharp intense pain at all, just a dull pain thats there...

just a little bothersome, its like when im active and moving around i don't notice it at all but when i sit down i can notice the fullness. There is was no blood either and the day after, it burned a bit to pass fecal matter through my system, but now its fine...

I guess if i really had Gastrointestinal perforation happen to me i would be suffering unbearable pain and would be in the Hospital. The only death i heard of this from anal penetration was a guy by the name of Mr. Hands who was into Bestiality and he killed himself by letting his horse penetrate him, and one day the horse went too deep.

I also tried researching this subject even looking in medical journals but i can never find out if Gastrointestinal perforation is a slow and painful process or you notice right away. I guess looking into the medical journals about damage that can be caused to the anus paranoid me.

I feel that what im feeling should clear up in a few more days... if it stays around any longer i think i might have to approach my doctor about this (thats gonna be awkward, and explaining it to my parents if i have to go under any sort of corrective procedure; they pay for my medical insurance.  

Anyway I hope someone can give me a bit of closure with this.

[Crystlas]

Yeah, I thought of how awkward that would be to go to your parents and a doctor.  My boyfriend suggested that you might be a bit impacted.  Have you been able to move your bowels ok?  I think you just went a little too rough and deep and hurt your butt a bit.  You should be ok.  A tip, do not to anal masturbation when you have fecal matter up there, good to do it when everything is nice and clear!   When my boyfriend and I get kinky with anal play on me, I do not let him unless I have clear pipes!!  :0-) Take care!

[HysarXS]

I actually clean it out before I do it... but i'm glad to know that i have done no serious harm to myself. Brings relief to myself. Im still gonna keep an eye on and if the fullness feeling dosn't go away after a few days im gonna consider talking to my doctor.

[Crystlas]

Good for you.  You are making the right choice in taking care of yourself to make sure you are ok.  Now we just have to come up with an un-awkward way of you approaching your parents.  Let me think on that one and run it by my BF.  He is a very creative thinker.  

[mr.lucky66]

the Anus was ment for exit only.

[Crystlas]

Only in your opinion, so keep it to yourself if you are not going to be supportive.

[Crystlas]

He did not come up with any ideas.  How are you feeling now?

[Cosmogal]

Yes, you can do permanent damage if you are not careful. My husband works in this field of gastroenterology. He has had cases where they have done so much damage to the sphincter muscles that it no longer works and they have to have a colostomy bag. You cannot repair a damaged sphincter muscle. The sphincter muscle is there so we don't defecate ourselves. So you need to be careful. Its not meant to be stretched like that. My husband has also been on cased where someone had inserted an object only for it to disappear and then had to be surgically removed. One guy even had a potatoe up there. Make sure to use plenty of lubrication and make sure not to go too far. Just be careful. He had a 23, yes 23 year old woman with permanent damage and has to now where a colostomy bag for the rest of her life. Hopefully you are okay. If you don't get any better see your doctor.

[Crystlas]

EWWWWW.....why would someone put a potato up there???  I guess a gerbal is not creative enough? LOL... people are really weird.  I have always heard strange stories about women getting weird objects stuck in their vagina, but never weird butthole objects.  My boyfriend wants to know if it was an Idaho potato or a Red potato. Strange...very strange.  

[Cosmogal]

Actually it was carved into well you know! LOL Seriously he has had alot. He had a guy with a light bulb, pepsi bottle, vibrator (it was left on! female), broom handle which the guy came in twice for splinters, and one guy who used a butt plug as big as a football. The handle broke off and he couldn't get it out and they had to do surgery. He ended up with a colostomy for the rest of his life. He completely ruined his sphincter muscle. Yeah people are weird. One surgeon that I know told me that during his rotation and guy came in and complained of abdomal pain. When they did an xray dots appeared all over his abdomal wall. Turned out the guy swallowed Barbie heads! He liked how it felt when he pooped them out. He would then stick them in the dishwasher to use them again. I just dont know how he didn't choke on them!  Yes there is so much out there that is too weird to speak of! The older I get the less I am shocked!

[HysarXS]

The feeling is progressively going away... It still feels like I have a full bladder, again the pain is not severe, It really doesn't even feel painful.  it doesn't even feel like a bad cramp. I have that feeling like i have to pee. (the feeling is mainly dominate when I'm sitting down.)

It doesn't hurt to use the bathroom and I'm not having any trouble keeping my waste in, also there is no blood. My anus also has not prolapsed

If I really did severe damage to myself, the pain would be extreme right, and if Gastrointestinal perforation was the case by 7 days wouldn't i be suffering from sepsis? (infection of the blood stream i think)

The only reason i'm second guessing this is I remember there are some internal injuries that are fatal but they leave little symptoms... like internal bleeding inside the brain.

[Cosmogal]

Honestly I don't think you did any permanent damage but just remember to be careful. You are dealing with a very delicate area. My husband has seen worse cases. You may have some internal bruising and swelling. Take some ibuprofin and see if that helps. If it hurts to pee then you could have an infection. So far I think you just over did it. I am definately concerned that you are taking drugs while doing this. Not a good idea at all.
I have a question though? if you are a hetorsexual male like you say you are then do you think you would share this with a female partner? I am not sure you would find many women who would think that is behavior of a heterosexual male. Unlike some men who only use it as a way of stimulating their prostate, you seem to take it to the next level. My concern with it is that you are so young and seem to take it in stride that "this" time you have done no damage. You might not get a second chance. Please be a little more careful or try to find other alternatives that turn you on.
Good luck!

[HysarXS]

You'd be surprised at the amount of stuff thats happening with the younger crowd... im sure you are aware of some of it. When I par-take in this activity i'm in a completely different Mental state, whether or not its with drugs. I really wouldn't even consider myself Bi-sexual... im not attracted to guys, but i just like the feeling... Its more like the mental thought of being raped by a creature or a demon... (Fetish/Fantasy)

The line between sexually accepted things is completely blurred among the young in todays society. The general mentality is, "We are eventually gonna die, so do what feels good." Its rare at least where i live, to meet someone who does not do drugs. I just made the personal choice not to stick to hard drugs (I did a mass amount of research on ecstasy or MDMA I understand how to responsibly use it and not abuse it
((I also know alot of X is a drug cocktail and has other drugs in it))

heh, by the amount of research i have done on the damage that can be caused to the rectal area... I'm not gonna par-take in this activity that rough again.

As for my symptoms so far today:

It feels like my bladder is full (pressure), and actually i have been peeing alot.
There has been no blood or pain with peeing.  

(you know how you can feel waste move through your bowels), when i feel it moving down, through the lower part of my body i get a tiny sharp cramp pain... though im aware those are normal i think.

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I suspect the following have been caused  because i was stressing out over this:

I felt tired all day today

When i was lying down from time to time i could feel my heart beat faster

and i would have the butterfly feeling in my stomach.

Curious, about how much longer do you think until my anus heals from the injury?

(Its been 7days since)

[Crystlas]

Cosmogal - OMG!  I have not laughed this hard in a very, very long time!!  I am feeling so much stress relief right now.  I am going through a really difficult time right now and really needed that!  I totally lost it at the barbie doll head fetish!!!  Ok, more laughter!  BTW, some men and women engage in female to male anal stimulus ( I speak from personal experience) and my man is hetrosexual.  We are careful and gentle though, just a bit kinky in the bedroom ;-)

HysarXS0 - Regarding MDMA, please please be careful.  My boyfriend happens to be AudioX  if you have heard of him?  His latest work is on myspace, so check it out!  However we are both drug free and have seen the dangers, first hand, at raves when it comes to people ODing on X so be careful.  I am excited, he a DJ at a rave this weekend, so we should have a blast!  I am glad you are feeling better.  It sounds like you are on the mend and healing well.  I am so glad Cosmogal wrote in and has professional knowledge to share with you!

Take care guys!!  :-)

[Cosmogal]

I now me too! I couldn't believe it when I was told about the barbie heads. That was just weird! I couldn't believe about the guy who took the time to carve the potatoe either! HysarXS talks about young people but I live near a retirement community and I can tell you that alot of them come from there! Believe me there is a high volume of those in retirement age with sexual transmitted diseases as well. There is an increase in aids as well in the elderly. They think they are immume!  I have a big issue with drugs being used. I am very anti drug. I have seen too much I guess. Illegal is illegal. So glad you are as well.
I think its great that you and your husband can spice things up in the bedroom. I think its importnant to have that in a marriage ( a healthy sex life) Good for you! I have heard of that and I am sure he is hetorsexual. I just thought he took it to extreme by being so rough and under the influence. I was concerned for him there.
Anyway, have a good day!

[Cosmogal]

As for healing, well it will take time. Stay away from drugs. Nothing good will come from that. You are fooling yourself if you think it isn't doing any damage whether it is hard core or not. Drugs are drugs. They are not to be used period. That is just my stance. If you are ever arrested or caught with them they can damage any future you may have. I don't care who is doing it, wrong is wrong. I think too many young people are confused because there is no line drawn anymore. They don't want to listen to conseguences.  It is really scary out there today. That is why so many out there are dying from stupid things. Overdosing or hanging themselves while masterbating (masturbating). They have this stupid thought that it can't happen to me attitude.

[Crystlas]

My husband, I wish!  We were engaged and now we are seperating for 3 months due to my bipolar disorder getting out of control and I tried to commit suicide at the end of January.  That is my difficult situation.  The ring is put away, wedding plans on hold and we are working on fixing this situation.  He discovered me with a bottle of pills and on a website about how to succeed successfully, pretty scary.  It traumatized him so much, along with this past year of my instability.  I got wisked away to the mental hospital that day and it was the best thing for me.  The psychiatrist I was seeing at the time refused to put me on an anti-depressent and at the hospital my doctor was astounded.  However, I am now on one, doing tons better along with a new doctor that is awsome and willing to work with me.  The anti-depressent is working awsome with my mood stabilizer (Lithium).  Both my boyfriend and I need space to heal, so he is moving back to his hometown and transferred his job there for the required three months.  We both have therapists, so it is on the mend.  So, now you know my story!  As far as becoming drug free, I used to smoke pot.  Never anything else really, just pot.  The day I was diagnosed I gave my weed away to the person that got it for me and I am done with it.  The day I got home from the hospital, I dumped my bottle of wine, and I am done with alcohol too.  Nothing in my body to even disturb the wonderful stable feeling I am now obtaining!  I never want to go down the road of deep depression again and if I start to, I am making a phone call!  Now I drink that sparkling juice beverage and it tastes great!  In fact, I have some chilling in the fridge for tonight for a much needed bubble bath, since he is moving some stuff today and will come home this weekend to finish up. :-(    On a different note, it is so sad to hear about the elderly community and a rise with STD's along with odd fetishes.  I always thought that generation was more prudish.  I hope to work in with this population one day, with my credentials.  Just trying to gain the experience right now!  So, give me some more laughter gal!!  

[HysarXS]

STDs around my age group are really bad. Recently the CDC released a report starting 1 in 4 Teen girls have some sort of STD.

A rumor has been spreading from extremists, (The kind of people that rant about "Big Brother")

The the government might actually be considering killing off STD infected people, or use it as population control.

[Crystlas]

Hmm... where did you get your info about the government.  That sounds totally bizarre since most STD's are curable with antibiotics.  Are you talking about AIDS and Herpies (herpes)?  WTF?  How could the government find all of the STD individuals since TONS of them go unreported?  Sounds like someone is jerking your chain!  BTW...how are you feeling?

[HysarXS]

Haha I really don't think any of its true... but out of the reported cases of STDs 1 in 4 teen girls really do have some sort of STD.

Me... im doing fine, i guess, i still have that fullness feeling like i have to pee all the time... seems like its acting on over-drive, cause i keep having to pee.

I can't help but think if i really got an infection... I did some reading about sepsis, which can happen from a hole being punctured in the stomach, if i had put i hole in my stomach wouldn't the pain be unbearable?

like i said its no extreme unbearable pain i just have that feeling that i really need to goto the bathroom. I wonder if it might be something thats completely un-related to my original concern (for the past few days i have been recovering from a few nights of drinking, which i forgot to mention) but it as i have described previously it does not hurt to pee... I just have the pain you get when you really need to pee.

If it doesn't stop I'm gonna goto the doctors complaining of bladder problems and see where it goes from there. I have a feeling that what im expriencing is not related to Gastrointestinal perforation. I'm heading off too bed now, i'll post another comment about how i feel when i get up.

[Crystlas]

I would ask Cosmogal about this, she seems to have more knowledge that I.  I think you are wise to go to the doctor.  Just kindof BS your way through it.  Maybe tell them you were chronically constipated for 2 weeks?  Maybe Cosmogal has an idea.  Atleast it is not barbie heads!  See, things could always be worse!  Take care.  

[HysarXS]

Though it really has nothing to do with consipation now... its about having to pee... it feels like i have to pee, lol. I spoke with my parents about the bladder problem they told me if the feeling doesn't go away by next week ill go in to see a doctor. I'm not sure if that will be too late or not...

It doesn't hurt when i pee... just hurts a bit to hold it in.

*sigh* I wish it would just be done and over with.

[Cosmogal]

I just think your bruised yourself internally. Give it time. It should be okay. Hopefully you didn't cause a fissure. If you start with a fever or there is more pain go to the doctor immediately. Next time, don't use drugs, be more gentle. You only get one body, treat it with respect.

[HysarXS]

symptoms as of 6:56pm EST:

still feels like i have a full bladder (the pain you get if you hold it in for too long and constant urge to use the bathroom)

Temp is: 98.8 - 99.1 degrees Fahrenheit

From about a month ago i have left over general antibiotics ( I had stepped on a rusty nail) Its just generic antibiotics. Should I take them to see if that helps?    

[Cosmogal]

No don't take the antibiotics. First of all you should have used them all when you were prescribed them. Always finish them even when you feel better. There is a reason for that. You can make yourself resistant to them in the future if you don't finish them.
You overdid it. Your not going to heal overnight. You don't have a fever. So my thought is to wait it out. Sit in a hot bath. Relax and keep away from that area. Sounds like you have bruised that area and just have swelling that is putting pressure in the area of your bladder and prostate. Try some Ibubrofin/motrin to reduce swelling.
Much luck to you!

[mr.lucky66]

that's good advise but the best thing to remember it not to use your *** as a sex toy. You only get one and you need it for something more important.

[Crystlas]

Hmm...fill in the blank ***, I am trying to figure out what *** is.  @ss?  How can you use your @ss as a sex toy? So that does not make sense.  I just can't guess what is on a body that is a three letter word except @ss that could be used as a sex toy.  I guess your could rub your @ss on someones genitals to use it as a sex toy, but other than that?  Oh wait!  Aren't there those weird fetish people that like to poop on each other during foreplay? Ok, some Wednesday night humor!!  :0)

[mr.lucky66]

I'm sorry to hear that you like to poop on people during foreplay. Maybe you should try another forum.

[Crystlas]

NOOOOOOOOOOOO, I do not.  Did you not read my post?  I called them the weird fetish people.  Did you not read?  LOOK ABOVE... GEEZZZZZZ

[mr.lucky66]

yeah I read. It doesn't sound too apetizing.

[Crystlas]

Yeah, that is really disgusting.  Why did you accuse me of that type of activity?  I may be a little kinky (in the normal sense) but I am not gross and nasty like that.  Also you never told me what the three letter word is!

[mr.lucky66]

it begins with an A  and ends with a S. Your write this whole thread is disgusting.

[Crystlas]

I figured it was @ss.  But I was teasing you, because how can you actually use your hiney as a sex toy??  You can use sex toys on it, but not it itself as a toy.  See...messing with ya!! LOL

[mr.lucky66]

yes okay, I had never heard of anal masterbation (masturbation) before and the whole idea is disgusting to me. I had a girlfriend earlier this year who wanted (insisted) That I put my finger up there . We no longer see each other. I know some like this but other parts of a woman interest me not that part.

[Crystlas]

You would be amazed what people do in the bedroom behind closed doors!  I have done some reading per the internet and come across some things, I just did not want to know.  However, anal masturbation is much more common than you think.  The prostate is like the g-spot on the man and causes explosive orgasms.  A lot of men know this, hetrosexual men.  And a lot of women help them achieve this during sexual play.  I think it is fine under the right circumstances as long as the man is careful.

[neonsignsteve]

Whatever came of this? I had a similar problem and wondering what you ended up doing, its only been 5 years.