HELP ME PLEASE

[sweaty09]

I need someone's help me and my husband do not like foreplay but I can't seem to have good orgasmism with him some time's i do and sometimes i don't and i need help on telling me what i can do to make my orgasmism better with him because it is breaking our marriage apart to the point he wants to leave me and he is all i have

[sweaty09]

On the days I do have one it is because I use a toy to help stimulate me

[SixStringer]

Are there any special things that he does or positions that help you achieve an orgasm on those days when you have an orgasm?  Of course, there are many factors going into having orgasms for both male and female subjects, and humans aren't robots, so things don't always turn out the same way every time humans do things.  As long as you are getting some orgasms, of course that is better than not having any.  

[sweaty09]

Hello, first of all I would like to thank you for your response, but see the deal is we don't hurry for an orgasm it is just we really don't like foreplay and there are time's when I don't have a problem having an orgasm then there are days I can't seem to have one that is what I was trying to say

[SixStringer]

I'm having a hard time understanding your question.  It seems that YOU are not always having an orgasm when having sex with your husband, but instead of you wanting to leave him, HE wants to leave you.  You both should slow down and have a good amount of foreplay when having sexual relations instead of hurrying to have an orgasm.  Take your time and build up to an orgasm, experimenting with different positions that may allow you to successfully achieve an orgasm.