Has to pay if he wants to play....

[timemarcheson]

My hubby 42, gets an awful head rush if he don't stop before he ejaculates.He must stand up for 1-2 min then lie down til pains quit stabbing in neck shoulder area. He does not have any problem before, during sex....its just after..unless he quits. Anyone ever heard of this?

[vneedmedhelp]

Your husband's predicament is not quite same as mine, but I have a unique situation with me as well. If I ejaculate, I feel strange vacant sensation, dizzy, throbbing sensation and drained out. This feeling goes out only after 10-12 hours of sleep. Interestingly, this does not happen IF I DON'T EJAC, and even if I indulged in sexual or mast'bation act for half an hour. So, far I have not come across any other male who shares my experience. Your husband comes close to my experience. Am I glad to know that!

I would like to add that fish oil helps me a lot (this is an incidental finding). See if it helps your husband and please share his experience with me.

[mjbrown]

Your husband is on several meds for bp, so side-effects / interaction effects from those meds would probably be the first thing to consider. He should talk to his doctor about the symptom he has to rule out other causes and maybe consider a change in medications.

Best of luck...

[timemarcheson]

Maybe bp. I've had my tubes tied but he'd love it if i were to get pregnant bc he doesn't have any children only my two from previous marriage. I will look into bp. thank you

[timemarcheson]

Thank you,thats good to know. He does have to take bp med and he's diabetic. He's on Lisinopril 40mg, Glupozide 5 mg, Bisoprolol 5mg, and amlodipine 5 mg. I was wondering if anyone taking amlodipine might have these symptoms. I am thinking this might be a side effect from one of the meds. ??

[vmvnpv]

Sorry.  I didn't even think about blood pressure but that really may be the answer.

[mjbrown]

Prostate cancer does not cause the symptoms your husband is experiencing. When was the last time he had his blood pressure checked out?

[vmvnpv]

Don't listen to render.  He is just trying to scare you.  It's a huge jump from having a headache to having cancer and everyone's symptoms are different anyway.

Has your DH seen a doctor about it?  Maybe the headache is due to anxiety.  It could also be excitement.  Stress from work can cause the tension and the release from ejaculation may be causing the headaches.  Could it maybe be subconscious?  Maybe he's afraid of getting you pregnant so his mind tells him he has a headache and he needs to pull out before he ejaculates in you.  I personally think he should go see a doctor.  They can tell him more about what's going on.