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Have I failed in the bedroom?

My boyfriend and I have been sleeping together for about 6 months now, and there seems to be a problem. I can't control or stop having orgasms. I have more than 100-200 orgasms each time we are together even if I use a vibrator earlier that day.I orgasm at the slightest arousal even while driving, going to the bathroom, doing dishes, and even just thinking too hard about sex. To make matters worse he doesn't seem to climax at all, and we agreed to take a break from having sex. But now I am majorly depressed and can't seem to even talk to other people. I need to know what I can do. I feel like a hopeless failure because I can't seem to control body.
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Beyond seeing your doctor for help with your situation, if your boyfriend is not reaching orgasm through intercourse within a certain amount of time, ask him to allow you to give him a handjob or b*l*o*w*j*o*b.  You are not "a hopeless failure" because your body is behaving beyond your control.    
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Hi,

I'm sorry this is having such a negative effect on your life :(  

You might want to check out something called Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder or 'PGAD' for short.  There are quite a few articles posted online that you can research to see if this matches the description of what you are experiencing.  Supposedly, it can be treated by a doctor via medication and /or cognitive therapy.

Good Luck
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