Have I over mastrubated?

[nik639]

Due to some reasons, I have been away from my wife since January last year and I have been sexually inactive since then. and in this time, I could not control my sexual desire and have mastrubated quite regularly. I read on internet that regular mastrubation is not bad. Initially I used to mastrubate once every 1 or 2 days. But recently my mastrubation frequence has reduced to 2-3 per week (or may be slightly more, I am not sure).

I have been worried about Over mastrubation. To make matters worse, since I last mastrubated (about 2 days ago)... I am feeling slight pain in my penis. If I try to check, whether I feel erection when I think about sex... though penis starts to become erect.. it accompanies with slight pain. Also,, I am seeing my penis to be dull and not very hard when erect.

I am worried if I have managed to get some incurable problem? I will be joining my wife in couple of weeks. Will I start having proper sex, with good erection? I would feel relieved, even if I get full erection with regular sex once I start living with my beloved wife.

[Devon42]

The only way you could be jerking off to much is if it interferes with you daily life like work or school and friends

[nik639]

Dear Saverin76, thanks for your feedback. It did give me some relief. And I will consider visiting a doctor for personal checkup.

Dear seebee123, could you please eleborate on how this could affect my actual sexual intercourse? Do u think it may lead to early ejaculation? and/or any other effects?

And if it leads to early ejaculation, would it improve over time with regular sexual intercourse and ejaculation be delayed?

Thanks for your feedbacks !!!

[seebee123]

I don't think over masturbation will cause any probs. However it may affect actual sexual intercourse,

[severin76]

I don´t know what is the reason for your painful feelings (well, nobody can say for sure unless they examine you physically whether there are some medical issues or something physical), but I am quite sure that it is not caused by over masturbation - especially if you say that the frequency of masturbation in your case was between once a day and several times a week. This frequency is absolutely normal and it should not lead to any problems. Another question is whether you could have caused some minor injuries in your penis by some forms of stimulation, it is impossible to say without medical examination.
All in all, I think that you do not have to worry or blame yourself - you have not damaged anything by over masturbation. The dull feelings or weaker erections when thinking about sex can be caused also by the fact that you observe your reactions too much and that you feel worried and stressed by it - then it is just natural that you will not be as relaxed during sexual fantasies as it is required for unproblematic erections and other sexual responses.
I wish you good luck and I hope that everything will be all right soon.