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I am sick to my stomach and need an answer
So my boyfriend and I were hanging out tonight and I jacked him off and he ejaculated onto his stomach. Immediately he wiped off his semen with a paper towel then went to the bathroom and supposedly wiped his stomach off again with water and a towel. He came back and I was straddled around his stomach with no pants or underwear on. I all of the sudden freaked out because I was sitting completely naked on the area where his semen had been. This happened about 10 min after he cleaned himself up. Could I get pregnant?? I was wondering the likelihood because he had wiped off the semen with the paper towel and then went to the bathroom and used water and an actual towel. When I sat on him naked it was about 10 min after this. Could there still have been some sperm that got into my vagina?
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COMMUNITY LEADER
Sperm can swim upwards. They do die quickly outside of the body though because they need a moist environment to survive.You said it was about 10 to 15 minutes before you sat on your boyfriend. Every single sperm would have died long before then. If your boyfriend would have ejaculated and you immediately sat on his stomach right where the sperm was there could have been the tiniest chance of pregnancy. And, I do mean tiny. That was not the case though. Your boyfriend washed up and the two of you did not touch each other for at least 10 minutes. Even if a few sperm were left behind they were long dead. There is no possible way that you got pregnant from this.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Yes, the sperm would have been dead at 5 minutes. I do think it was good that he went to the bathroom to wash off. This gave time for the sperm to die. You're fine and once you get your period you will know that there was no possible chance of pregnancy. I hope your mind is much more at ease after talking with all of us.
COMMUNITY LEADER
The best way to remove your doubt, is to learn learn the longivity of sperms outside the body and the mechanism of conception.Google these phrases.Once you know about fertilization, you will be sure of your real situation.You will be condident and enjoy sexual maneuver with s free mind.
And also, I know I told you it was about 10-15 min before I sat on him, but what happens if it was sooner than that? Like say a few minutes or 5 min? Would all sperm of died within those few short minutes?
Thank you so much! I think day by day my mind will slowly ease itself down. It sure did give me a lot of unwanted anxiety which will not happen in the future. One last question if you don't mind, when my boyfriend had wiped off the wet semen with a paper towel, at that point would all living sperm be killed? So basically, did he even need to go to the bathroom and put water on it and then towel dry it? Just curious!
Can you send me a scenario of a situation similar to mine you have answered to? Do you know of anyone who has gotten pregnant this way? I know I just need to calm myself down and not stress but it is so hard to do. Any advice that will help me realize I have no risk of pregnancy?
Have you read the posts on here? There's a story like yours every week. And just like yours, they are all no risk scenarios which are not even worth worrying about. If you have such extreme anxiety about this stuff then you need to insist that your boyfriend uses a condom anytime he is naked, even if you're not having sex. There's no reason for you to do anything with him unless he's covered since you apparently can't handle it and go off the deep end despite there being no risk from what you've done before. Either tell him to always use condoms or else don't take your clothes off with him anymore.
Ok thank you. I get horrible anxiety and I'm so paranoid over nothing. I know his stomach had to of been dry where he had ejaculated earlier, I mean it was about 10-15 min later so it had to of been dry from what I think. And since it would've been dry, the semen wouldn't of been there and neither the sperm cause it had been wiped off and dead since it had been dry. I know some hotlines can't give me a 100% correct answer but it freaks me out when they say there is a possible risk.
Those hotlines are garbage. I'm the one telling it like it is. Ask anyone with a little common sense and a basic understanding of reproduction. Look at a diagram of the female anatomy. How do you expect sperm that had been out in the environment outside of the human body and exposed to air, water, and being toweled off to have enough every to make the very long trek upwards through the length of your vagina, through your cervix and into your uterus? It's not physically possible. You're completely worrying about nothing here. You need to read more about reproduction and study those diagrams of your reproductive system because if you knew anything about it, you'd understand why this is a completely no risk situation.
I did read your response but a hotline I had called said that gravity would've had nothing to do with it. The sperm can swim in the right environment. I am just so worried because some hot lines I call tell me that there is possible risk while some other say there is not. I don't know what to believe. I know that my boyfriend had wiped the wet semen off with a paper towel and then water but I'm nervous that there still could've been some remnants of sperm on his stomach where I had placed my vagina. I know after he cleaned himself up it was about 10-15 min later when I sat on him.
Hi there is no chance of you getting Pregnant what so ever , as you have been told , Please relax you will make yourself have Anxiety Attack , What i will say is use a Condom what ever you get up to , It save's all the worry later , Please Take care , Chill
Thank you for responding to my question I really do appreciate it. One last question. When my boyfriend had wiped off the wet semen on his stomach with a paper towel and then with water and a bath towel would there be any chance some soerm would still be alive?
There's no way you could get pregnant from that. Even if there was some sperm left on his stomach and you sat on him naked, there's still no way because gravity would make it impossible for the sperm to swim up and inside of you. It literally can't do that. The only way it would have been a risk is if he shoved his penis inside you and ejaculated because the sperm would have a way to be propelled upward. But since he didn't do that and the sperm was either completely wiped off or sitting on his stomach with nothing to help it get up inside you, then you are for sure not getting pregnant. The only reason why you're nauseous is because of your anxiety. Stop worrying over a no risk situation and your nausea will go away.
So there's no way sperm could've lived after my boyfriend wiped off the wet semen with water and a paper towel? I am so paranoid that I'm nauseas. Im so scared that I could be pregnant cause I sat on the same spot where he had ejaculated.
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