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I can't seem to get any sexual pleasure?

When my boyfriend and I have sex I feel almost nothing. When he and I are having sex I will mostly feel pain and for a rare second in between the pain I may feel slight stimulation. He had tried every position he can think of and doesn't change anything up when I have that second of good. But it is literally like a second. He has once been able to finger me enough that I felt tingly and l light headed but that was almost 2 years ago. When he tries oral I feel it only when he is on the clit but after to much on the clit I can't seem to take it anymore and he has to stop, he's tried going slow and only sometimes going on it but my body just seems to lose interest. When I can't take it anymore my body seems to get slightly twitchy almost but then goes away when he stops and after a few second feels like nothing even happened.

I have never been able to masturbate, When I have tried i have the same clit experience. I'm 21 he's my first partner.  I feel like something is wrong with me?
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Plus , I don't ever seem to get wet. We just use a bunch of lube. But I am really turned on and do feel like I want sex, just stop wanting it as much when we are actually start.
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