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ok my and my b/f have been dating 3 month and i let him finger me (im a virgin) i think he poped it with his finger(he said hes finger was dry and i trust him but u never no). when i got home i notice blood when i used the restroom . and seens then my stomach has been hurting(2 weeks now) what does this mean? im on the pill... and i pregnant? or is it just after pain , or somthing else....plz help we are scared that i am pregnant
If you think ur PG after that then you really need to educate yourself about this. You cant get preg this way. It might be your nervous just calm down. If you dont know what u doin dont do it. Read about stuff and educate urself before you go any further! ok? If you need to talk just send me a messgae
Unless that was the finger of God, you are not pregnant. As for the pain....where was his finger before he put it in you? Might be an infection.
You won't remain a virgin for 2 long at this rate. if you want to be a virgin or save your self tell him no until you are ready. get some eduaction on the subject of sexuality for your own sake or other wise you will end up pregnant.
I dont understand the misinformation. So many people are completely uneducated about sexual health. They start 'the talk' in the fourth grade now! I know when I was a kid that was the ONLY class we paid attention to. I agree though, as least know what sort of risks could be involved before you start any sort of sexual exploration and ask your mom/dad/aunt/uncle/teacher SOMEONE about the birds and the bees. I'm sure they'll be willing to explain.
HOney if you think you're PG just by doing that.. than maybe you're not ready or old enought to be doing what you're doing.
Lecturing aside, you should go see a DR and get properly informed on sexual health and pregnancy prevention.
Lecturing aside, you should go see a DR and get properly informed on sexual health and pregnancy prevention.
Sasor, at this point it sounds like it's getting worse because you're worried about it so much. Stomach pain can be many things - didn't eat this afternoon, period cramps coming on (in that case, they should be lower, in your abdomen), diarrhea, food poisoning - it can be many things. Why won't you make an appointment with your doctor? While you're waiting for the day of your appointment, start looking up information on pregnancy, birth control, and sexual health. You cannot get pregnant from fingering.
Mimi is dead on - It is your body and the only one who will look after it is YOU.
Mimi is dead on - It is your body and the only one who will look after it is YOU.
No, you can not get pregnant from what you described. You could have an uterine or urinary tract infection. As for the pain being in your stomach....do you think it could be a bad case of the "nerves"? I do not know how old you are but you need to read up on sexual health and educate yourself on how your body works. I do feel for you. I think I was 16 or 17 before I understood how my body worked. Also, follow the advice of Sasor, use a condom at all times if you are engaging in sexual intercourse. It is your body and the only one who will look after it is YOU.
you know what? If you're old enough to have sex and be "fingered" then you're old enough to know what the possbilites are after than happens. If you think you can get pregnant like that, then you should't be engaging in any activities like that. Seriously. Geez.
I am sorry. I have just noticed that most of the people on here with no real account are trolls making up crazy, silly stuff to get a reaction out of people. I will just keep quiet if I suspect a troll again!
For someone who is "social worker" that is a really insensitive thing to say to someone. This person may be really concerned and who are you to laugh at their fears and concerns. I think you really need to reconsider what job you are going in to!
Well it really wasnt your first time if you were just fingered. But no you can not be pregnant by that! You really need to go to the doctor to find out what the pain is and to get more information on sex and things like that. If you dont know what causes pregnancy then you dont need to be messing around with your bf! You dont have pain in your stomach after intercourse. You really need to go see your doctor! But seriously talk to someone about sexual health and stuff.
ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!! Are we four years old? Gee... I have known four year olds with better grammer.
i dont have pain down there just in my stomach.........how long can it stay sore for after your first time?
i dont have pain down there just in my stomach.........how long can it stay sore for after your first time?
You cannot get pregnant from what you said hapened however you can end up with infections which are common especially if his finger was not clean. Hands carry staph, strep and many other infectious criiters. You NEED to see your doctor for an evaluation as infections if left untreated can cause SERIOUS long term problems. Urinary infections are easy to test for and can be pretty much instantaniously read. You will urinate in a cup and the Doctor will check it out. Go to your Doctor. If by chance you are witholding information about your activities than yes you can be pregnant even if you are on the pill and if your partner did not use protection. Also remember there are STDs so ALWAYS have your partner use protection regardless of the fact that you are on the pill.
Good luck
Good luck
there is no way in hell you're pregnant. If you think you're old enough to be doing those kinds of things, you need to educate yourself on what can and can't happen.
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STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
Discharge often isn't normal, and could mean an infection or an STD.
STDs aren't transmitted through clothing. Fabric is a germ barrier.
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