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I only put condom on before I ***. Is it safe?

When I have sex with my gf I usually put condom on before I am ready to actually ***. Is it safe?

Another questions: recently we had sex (2,5 weeks after her menstrual cycle ended), I put on condom right before I was ready to ***, I ejaculated for about 10 secs.,  withdrew my penis while still erect and I noticed some fluids (not a lot) on the top of the condom and on her lips. All the sperm though was on the base of the condom. I don't think sperm leaked out of the condom and that fluid did not smell like sperm and was more like a creme looking than sperm. It was on her lips and she went straight to the bathroom and had a shower. I had a trojan's polyuerathane condom. I always take a very good care to put it right. Her menstrual cycle supposed to start 3 days ago and it did not. Was it her secretions or the mix of body fluids? What is the likelihood that semen from the shaft could have leaked out? If it leaked out, what is the likelihood of pregnancy?
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Guys and gals, thank you all for your input. I am going to take your advices. Special thanks to BritandBianca!
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Okay since you have been together for 8 yrs your safe on std's, if one or not both of you are not screwing around. If there's even a chance you need to put that baby on b4 you even get near down there. Also you can pre-*** say on her stomach or her anus and the semen can get inside and get her pregnant. Your very lucky that she got her period!! Do you want a baby? I think you do and she must too if she goes along with you not wearing a condom right! Really accidents happen, and if you'll don't want a baby then you need to commincate about her getting on BIRTH CONTROL!! b/c you def. don't know how to use a condom! She could get on the shot which she only has to worrry with 4 times a year! Or there's pills that she takes every day! Or the patch! There's so many and only a health care professional knows what her body needs. So I would advise her to go to a local health clinic or gyno. The health clinic is very inexpensive. And the answer to your question is for sure NO!!!!! Pre-*** got 2 of my friends pregnant!
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I have no worries for STD, we've been together for 8yr. By the way her menstrual cycle just started today :)
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What you  are doing is not safe. It will transport STD's if either person has them or gets them and it will not stop her from being pregnant.

You need to use a condom from start to finish.
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