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I think too much about sex at 13 (female)

I've been masterbating almost every day since I was 11 years old, but it isn't "usual" masterbation. I keep my pants on, but I rub along my vagina back and forth while watching pornography. After I've orgasmed, I feel terrible. Lately I've started crying at how disgusting I feel after masterbating. I feel like a complete and total *****, but I don't dress provocatively and never had sex. And what makes me feel even worse is what I masterbate to. Oh gosh, it's really quite disgusting. But, it's usually body or breast inflation >.< yuck I know, but I can't help it. And they're always woman. And whenever I'm in school, I just stare at people-and sometimes my friends-bodies and think the most perverted thoughts. I think sexually almost constantly, but im a very timid person so you would never guess this by my personality. I just feel horrible at school and I don't know how to make it stop. How can I stop masterbating and thinking these thoughts!? I'm only 13 I feel like my mind is too sexually involved! I am not this kind of person, please help!
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Hi Hungry, Just did some back tracking on your posts, I think it was your first one, on there you say your 14 a bio and not sexually active, right.
The second, looking for sex info, and do you need to make loud noises, and I did answer you by saying that you had been whatching to meany films on your computer.
And now you say your masturbating to porn films, so I was right, and now your only 13? see building up a picture of you but have no face, but dont worry on that bit.
So from now on we need trust OK
Good Luck
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Hi Hungry just from your posts on here, if you look you will find that I have answered a few,  and if you look at my profile I'm here sitting in Greece, the country, and its wet and raining, I'm on the Peloponess near Kalamata, famed for its big eating olives, any help.
Look if you really want some help it will be by email, if its a real problem your having the first thing to do is strip your computer of any porn sites you have, any downloads of porn and get rid of any discs you have and that will be your start, as for masturbating just go to dobson and ross, google it and on there you will find out how to masturbate properly, doing through you nickers is not good, hows that for a start, but the clearing out is a must, so lets start from here and now.
Good Luck
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Nohard thank you so much, that is really very kind of you ^_^ But when you said you were building a picture of me that made me scared, have you read all my posts/answers? Have you found any other social networking sites? Are you outside my house right now? Haha. But seriously... That freaked me out more than that should have
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Hi Hungry , we meet again, I'm slowly builing a picture of you, but this last bit of information, only builds a wider pictire, now if you were a guy I would say that you have porn enduced ED, look I will do some research just for you, and see what I can find, but in the mean time I want you to start a sabbatical from mastur bating, can you do that for me, anytime you feel like masturbating go and do something, and get rid of all your porn sites you have on your computer, get rid of anydownloads you have, and anything on discs just throw them away. can you do that for me, if yes I will take you under My wing and try as I can get you oput of this trouble that you have, if need be you can message me.
Hope I can help you.
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It is a very difficult thing to get over the situation quickly. Has anxiety caused heaviness of the head and/or fatigue?

Although it is a difficult thing to do, but it is best to speak to someone about this in a private and confidential matter. It can be embarrassing at the start, but frequent consultation and advice will help overcome the issue you're having. Your condition is a chronic neurological condition, and prolonged anxiety can lead to muscle pain; chronic fatigue syndrome; gastritis; etc.

Hope everything goes well for you, and if you ever need any advice on here, I will try my hardest to respond as soon as possible. However, a professional such as a school counsellor will be a good start.
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Why don't you make a couple of appointments with your school counselor to talk about your anxiety. If you feel completely comfortable with your counselor then you can talk about these thoughts.
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The problem is I have extreme social anxiety, so it's strange that I would even think these things, and I don't think I'd ever be comfortable to talk to anybody about this. I think if I can just stop masterbating these thoughts will stop to, or at least most of them
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Hello,

This is a common condition for both males and females at any age. The best bet is to speak to a close relative and/or your school counsellor. What you have is a common habit that can be tolerated if you wish to stop this habit.

Hope you get the help you need, and you feel better soon.
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Is there an adult in your life that you feel comfortable talking to about this? What about your school counselor?
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