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In desperate need of help
Ok so basically I want to rip my hair out of my skull. I have been rendered unable to orgasm, and I have no idea why. I am begging anyone WITH MEDICAL KNOWLEDGE to help me. Your response could significantly impact my will to live. I am 19 years old so no it is not menopause. I fear I may have diabetes or something, that is my worst fear. I masturbate daily but have lost interest when my orgasms have faded. This has been an ongoing problem, not something that randomly happened. It started about 4 months ago. I would masturbate and my orgasms would be weaker than usual. I brushed it off as stress. But it kept happening, they kept fading away. And now they have diminished to nothing. I hardly feel anything. It feels as though my clit has lost all sensation and the thought of that is distressing and downright heartbreaking. I thought maybe it was hormones and I have been taking Estrosmart (supplements to fix prog-est balance) for about 3 weeks and it hasn't done anything. I am at a loss of what to do. If I am permanently unable to orgasm, I dont know if I will even want to live anymore. I just dont understand how this can happen to a young girl. Please do NOT tell me its psychological factors because I know it isnt. I am not stressed, angry, or depressed. At least I wasnt before I developed this problem. I was on birth control for about a year. Please someone, please help me. I am really struggling and cant begin to describe the frustration I feel.
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Thank you Jess, your input is very much appreciated and I feel a bit better knowing it is most likely treatable.
Hi there -
Oh I'm sorry you are so upset, but please just give your doctor a call. This could be so many things from irritation from a yeast infection you don't even know you have to hormonal (and the hormones you are on may be making it worse) to a pinched nerve (again, you may not know you have one) to a whole host of TEMPORARY, TREATABLE things.
If you don't want to talk to your regular doctor, go to a Planned Parenthood or similar organization. You can start there and make sure you don't have an infection or any hormone issues, and if not, move on from there to investigate other causes if it's not that.
But please know that there are very few causes of permanent orgasm loss, especially in women who have once been able to achieve them.
Jess
Oh I'm sorry you are so upset, but please just give your doctor a call. This could be so many things from irritation from a yeast infection you don't even know you have to hormonal (and the hormones you are on may be making it worse) to a pinched nerve (again, you may not know you have one) to a whole host of TEMPORARY, TREATABLE things.
If you don't want to talk to your regular doctor, go to a Planned Parenthood or similar organization. You can start there and make sure you don't have an infection or any hormone issues, and if not, move on from there to investigate other causes if it's not that.
But please know that there are very few causes of permanent orgasm loss, especially in women who have once been able to achieve them.
Jess
Maybe you are masturbating too much. It could be medication as well or stress. If you want someone WITH MEDICAL KNOWLEDGE to help, you will have to pay a fee on here.
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