My 13 year old daughter has been close friends with my boyfried of 2 1/2 years. She has genuinely like him and talks to him before any other adult with any of her problems. He is always kind and gentle and patient with her, as with the rest of my children. My daughter came to me a couple of nights ago and said they fell asleep on the couch while watching a movie (which happens every weekend). She said he rubber her leg and abdomen and when she moved because she was uncomfortable he woke up, realized what he had done, said he would never hurt her and he was sorry and went upstairs to sleep. She came to me the next morning and told me this, and I believe her. I had told her to always come to me with anything of this nature. She says this is the first time this has ever happened and she has never felt uncomfortatble around him before this incident. (She has been taught since toddlerhood what inappropriate touch was). There is no history of this behavior and all of my kids are very fond of him. I know that he is very affectionate with me while he is asleep and likes to cuddle and rub my back, legs, etc. Could this be an isolated incident and truely be an accident and he mistook her for me? We are about the same size. He has been heartbroken and very, very, sorry when I approached him with the story and says he doesn't remember anything. He is devastated as well as I am. I made him leave to protect her from feeling uncomfortable and I have her in counseling already. My question is could there be grounds for legal action? What if this truley is an accident? For her to heal I will do whatever it takes, but I just don't think it was intentional. I would appreciate your input.